You know the B#### sheild that girls put on to test us males and see how we react, yeah i came across it last night and i didnt fall for it .
Thanks to Richard Gamblers book ive been recently reading i didnt give in, any other time i would have given up as soon as she said she was engaged.
Anyway i got chatting to this really nice looking young lady last night, started off just general talking and as soon as i introduced myself held the hand shake etc she drops the " ohh im engaged by the way" bomb on me.
I just carried on and said " ohh really wow thats awesome, so what do you do for a job? " I didnt drop my face or exit the conversation i changed the subject and carried on to get to know her did a few more sublte touches and that was my que to move in, Boom number/hook up.
It just shows if you can read the situation right carry on, but if shes not giving you those IOI's pull out of it because shes probly telling the truth and you will waste your time.

( Abit off topic... who got thier copy of DAY GAME DOMINATION? the dvd set there was 1,200 selling limited edition and i managed to get in so its on its way should get it next week)

I stumbled upon this speech by David Foster Wallace and I found it very inspiring and congruent with the first experiences you make once you tackle daygame. Probably not to everyone's taste, but nonetheless, I hope you enjoy it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vET9cvlGJQw

I am currently having no strings attached sex with a woman I met through Daygame.

Mort

Good question...Often I'd come into a restaurant with a pretty girl and you could tell the waiter really fancies her, sometimes they would really chat her up in front of me and pay good attention to her and I just let it be to see how good of a gamer he really is.  They can't do much except a lot of rapport type conversation and be flirty here and there before they cross the line.

That being said though, I'm sure you can flirt with the girl if she's with her other girlfriends or with guys who are not her bf's.  If throughout the time you are serving them, they seem open and willing to converse and are openly flirty back with you, then you could slip her your number or business card when you return with their check...or you could discreetly write on the bill "Give me your number, let's grab a coffee some time when I'm not so busy."  The whole idea is to have fun and be open with it and take everything in stride.

It seems to be a perfect occasion though to practice indirect/ direct game. Check out Nick Krauser's (and other's) advice on that. (btw. NK is one of the trainers in the Blue Print...)