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thanks for the reply rob, i think i should drop the assumption stacking in the rapport stage . i do something like " you seem like a person who likes to get drunk on saturday nights for fun!?" but i think i should not do that in the rapport stage. should i just ask questions and talk about what she is intrested in and what im intrested in? i donno what topics to talk about
I know people who throughout their life they have just stayed in the little town where they grew up and a lot of people do that these days, its completely mental. At some point you have to step things up and make a change if you want to live a better and much more interesting life.
This is spot on & its kinda finalised something I've been thinking about for a while....i have realised i am moving the fuck outta this town & going to a bigger more buzzing place like Belfast as soon as my ex gf has our baby & everything has settled down & is going smoothly.
Thanks for making me realise that it is MENTAL to stay here!!!
So i FINALLY did what i said i would do.
I moved to Belfast
Its my first night in my new home. Me & a mate got a private place together. Needs a bit of work & shit but its no biggie. He isnt even moving in properly yet which suits me fine cos it gives me time to get used to the place without tripping over him & getting in each others way.
I mite even have a chance of a flat of my own in the area i want, i'll know next week if i get it or not.
There is an anti-drug organisation i really want to work for, i let them know by writing to them publically on facebook telling them i have worked with one of their colleagues delivering a drug awareness programme, i included in my very well worded post that they WANT me in their organisation, they just didnt know it yet...they got in contact with me, & we are gunna work something out for me mid August.
I have a couple of other drug projects im working on, as well as a few other back up plans.
I made these things happen before i even got here, i made it all happen & im sure the possibilities are endless now im actually here.
Things are now falling into place & i can see my awesome future before me.
My new house is only a temporary arrangement, i plan to move on very quickly, if not before xmas, first thing in the new year.
The bottom line is, i did it.