The first two minutes are always the hardest because being approached in the daytime is the last thing the girl would ever expect to happen so they probably are not in a sociable mood meaning their auto pilot response is to say they have to go. The chances are they actually are on their way somewhere as well.

When they say they have to go I see it as having a Plan A, B and C.

Plan A: Just ignore it like she didn't say anything and carry on ploughing through by making more statements/assumptions

Plan B: If she does start walking off do what Tom and Jon advise and actually say "OK, one more thing before you go" and keep on ploughing

Plan C: You can always reopen. I will only do this if the vibe was still pretty good and if you can tell she sort of likes you. So when she walks off wait a couple of seconds and do another Yad stop and say something like "Did you really think I was going to give up that easily"

They might initially like your approach and could well be attracted but that sometimes isn't enough for the girl to stop what she is doing and to chat to a stranger in the street. So remember the first couple of minutes is just to get them comfortable and to get them used to you being there- think of it as getting them warmed up to you.

Hope this helps

Quote from: dan300 on September 04, 2011, 08:02:52 PM

Quote from: Rob on August 26, 2011, 02:08:26 PM

I know people who throughout their life they have just stayed in the little town where they grew up and a lot of people do that these days, its completely mental. At some point you have to step things up and make a change if you want to live a better and much more interesting life.

This is spot on & its kinda finalised something I've been thinking about for a while....i have realised i am moving the fuck outta this town & going to a bigger more buzzing place like Belfast as soon as my ex gf has our baby & everything has settled down & is going smoothly.

Thanks for making me realise that it is MENTAL to stay here!!!

So i FINALLY did what i said i would do.

I moved to Belfast

Its my first night in my new home. Me & a mate got a private place together. Needs a bit of work & shit but its no biggie. He isnt even moving in properly yet which suits me fine cos it gives me time to get used to the place without tripping over him & getting in each others way.

I mite even have a chance of a flat of my own in the area i want, i'll know next week if i get it or not.

There is an anti-drug organisation i really want to work for, i let them know by writing to them publically on facebook telling them i have worked with one of their colleagues delivering a drug awareness programme, i included in my very well worded post that they WANT me in their organisation, they just didnt know it yet...they got in contact with me, & we are gunna work something out for me mid August.

I have a couple of other drug projects im working on, as well as a few other back up plans.

I made these things happen before i even got here, i made it all happen & im sure the possibilities are endless now im actually here.

Things are now falling into place & i can see my awesome future before me.

My new house is only a temporary arrangement, i plan to move on very quickly, if not before xmas, first thing in the new year.

The bottom line is, i did it.

Nice one

Haha yeah I would like an explanation but it is just the way different cultures are to be honest.
The Scandinavians I have met are all completely open and friendly, Australians also seem to be similar.

What makes Scandinavia so great though is that not only are they friendly but the girls are real stunners as well!

And because of this reason I am off to Stockholm for a week at the beginning of August for a bit of an Adventure

Feel free to contact me for anyone who lives or will be in the area.

You have to be a bit more careful in those types of situations when going direct because if it is a small party you don't want to quickly get the reputation of the guy who is going around hitting on all the girls.
That is why direct is great for daygame in large cities and large clubs, as you can do it is much as you want and it wont make much difference.

At house parties I would focus on having fun and maybe be a bit more situational when it comes to opening.

@ Aritalo, That was a great post as I am going to Stockholm in a couple of weeks and knew there would be stunning girls but was curious on how friendly/receptive of the approach they would be. Next summer I will definately have to do the rest of scandinavia, especailly Oslo

Budapest
I am currently on holiday in Budapest having a bit of a daygame session and there are stunning girls but a lot of them are tourists as well. I emailed Tom Torero before I came here and he said the girls are stunning but can be quite conservative to the direct street approach. I can confirm this as sometimes as soon as they know I am English they can walk off (sometimes due to the fact they dont speak it themselves). Even if I do get into a conversation they are very similar to English girls in general in that they will usually say they have to leave and are not open to an instant date- a lot of persitence is sometimes required to get them to stay talking.
Some of them are also quite shy, it could also be because they feel as though their english is not too good. Anyway, I am having a great time and have met some real beauties but when it comes to deciding the country for the 'best' women I think the girls receptiveness is a big factor and it sounds like Scandinavia is the place to be

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Yeah man you have to look at your life as a whole and girls should just be one piece to the whole puzzle.

Focus on doing what you enjoy and work on all areas of your life simultaneously, once I started doing this I noticed I was just a happier person and my vibe was so much better which girls pick up on.

Get a job you enjoy, have some hobbies, travel more, go to the gym etc. Since I have been lifting weights for the past year I honestly just feel soooo much better about myself as your body releases the natural chemicals, so this is something I recommend for everyone.

Focus on having a full life as not only do you appear more attractive to girls but you feel so much better about yourself as well