What I found helped me when I did my first approaches is that I saw those first approaches as an experiment or having curiosity to see how the girl would react if I approached her in this way.

Dont take anything personally as they obviously dont know you, just go up with this curiosity mindset as I was really interested to see what type of reactions were possible.

When you see it is possible to get these positive reactions then youre confidence will improve

To be honest I don't see the point in adding one because pretty much every other forum out there is on Nightgame.

The reason people are drawn to this forum is that it is specifically for Daygame.

Here I would like to draw attention to the concept of "Persistence" and when it's no longer Neediness but rather a necessary thing to do with a woman to take things to the next level.

I'm specifically talking about persistence after taking her number.

How many times should you text/call her to get a reply from her? What I'm thinking now is just to text her once and if she doesn't reply (in 2 days max) then it's your approaching techniques to blame.

For me contacting a girl with no reply then doing it again with no reply too will really hurt my ego.

What I believe is that if she's interested then she's interested and that's it.

What do the experienced guys say?

I usually text about 2 hours after I have met her basically saying it was nice to meet her etc.
Then in the next day or two I will arrange a date with her. At the moment if I text her 2 or 3 times without a reply then chances are its a flake and I will leave it at that.

Leave your ego out of this son! Just learn from it- you shouldn't let it affect you.

Yeah it was good man. You have a great vibe and sound like a cool guy.

Some things come to mind:

You could have challenged her more as this is a much more subtle, powerful and less try hard than straight up high energy teasing. For example, when she said she has never visited the countires where she had come from, you could of just said something like "well, why not?"

After a few minutes I would of dialled down your energy and let her do most of the talking, as this is how you get them to invest and they will walk away from the interaction feeling as though they really have connected with you rather than them just thinking that was a fun conversation. If you listen back to the audio the ratio of you talking was about 50/50 when once she has hooked its best to let her do most of it.

Let us know if you see her again.

p.s. Stop calling us British!!!!! Its ENGLISH!!!!!   lol

Yup, Jon is obviously spot on here.

What I would like to add is that I like to play with the cliche/stereotypical image once you have found out where she is from or what she does for work.

E.g.
She says she if from Spain, I may reply with "Oh so I take it you have just had your Siesta for the day then"

She says she studies or works in fashion, I may reply with "Ok, so that basically means you just like to shop then"

Once you find some information about the girl just go with the first thought that crops up in your head.

Well it is really hard to say when just from reading text but by the sound of it you want to come across more 'Authentic'.

The perfect combination is being confident as well as being authentic.

The best way to come across as being authentic is to genuinely feel that way about the girl and that you just HAD to meet her. Focus on the way you feel about her and project that by having a nice authentic smile on your face.

Trust me the smile is everything!

It also helps to compliment her on something specific that you like about her such as her origin or something she is wearing, that way they see it less like a line.

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How far do you go with the challenging? EX: If a girl is smoking, should I give her some flack for it?
If a girl does environmental studies, and I don't think global warming is real, should I tell her that?

I'm guessing these two ideas are bad ^^

Also, in the example Yad did, what happens if the girl says "Yes, I am shopping on Daddy's credit card".

Its best to challenge her when you honestly feel differently to something than her and that you are not doing it just for the sake of it. Im not to sure about the smoking one because they can be a bit offended, if you made it playful though it should be fine.
When it comes to the global warming thing I would see that as a perfect opportunity to give your opinion on it. It would make her really engage and want to explain her views on it.

And if a girl says she is shopping on daddy's credit card I would probably call her a naughty girl and that I hope she bought him something really nice to say thankyou lol.