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The Sofa / Re: Is daygaming worth the time ?
« on: February 21, 2012, 11:02:42 AM »Hi. First of all I really don't want to sound negatively but this bothers me.
I saw a video where a guy summed up his year of picking up girls. I don't know if he did only daygame but that's not important. He said that he did 2000 approaches in one year and got laid 12 times. If you take a global ratio 1:10 for having sex with a woman you had a date with this means he had 120 dates from his 2000 approaches. From those 120 dates(with some girls more than one of course) 108 girls didn't have sex with him(= over 120x money and time spending + 2000 time spending). So if you look at those 2000 approaches and the outcome of having sex with 12 girls I'm asking: is it worth it? I understand that all of us get into the game for sex and gaming is more about the personal change than the sex itself but when you look at the investment and reward isn't starting up a business(or something like that) a better choice to spend your time when you're young? Isn't a better choice to secure yourself financially and then spend your time trying to get woman? It's much cheaper to spend 12x 50?/100? on escort girls when you count the time you're spending.
Daygame(and pickup overall) sounds really great to newbies(like magic pill) but If you don't want to became another PU trainer, is it really the right thing to spend time on? Let's say you are 23, you've just discovered 'game' and it takes you 5 years to be the best as you can be in it. You are now 28 and you have no (big)money, you probably don't own anything valuable and work 9-5 job. You are an ordinary guy with good social life. Yes you may be 'happy' but in 10 years you may regred the time. It's like an education - you didn't do you'r ing or phd and now it's too late.
Maybe all I'm saying is don't take gaming too seriously. Of course more approaches = more success. But where's the line?
Hey BeStrong, here's my video response to your question:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K3BdZ-zfkR0
~Patrick
- The Daygame Cafe Management