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Actions & Techniques (Outer Game) / Re: Facebook and Daygame!
« on: January 04, 2012, 04:21:03 AM »
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The Sofa / Re: Here's the TRUTH about Day Game...
« on: January 03, 2012, 03:57:16 PM »
You're all missing the point.
The thing is that most guys here and most of PUAs are hitting on foreign girls. Either in other countries where they are the tourists or home where the girls are the tourists or students. The point here is that it's much harder(success) hitting on local girls. For London based guys, which is most of guys here since DG is based in London, it's normal. But there are other countries and cities that are not that popular for tourists so guys out there have it thougher. That's all. There is nothing elste to say here.
The thing is that most guys here and most of PUAs are hitting on foreign girls. Either in other countries where they are the tourists or home where the girls are the tourists or students. The point here is that it's much harder(success) hitting on local girls. For London based guys, which is most of guys here since DG is based in London, it's normal. But there are other countries and cities that are not that popular for tourists so guys out there have it thougher. That's all. There is nothing elste to say here.
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The Sofa / Re: Appreciate Your Opinions :) Thx!
« on: January 02, 2012, 07:13:47 PM »
I think the best investment would be getting a coach for a few hours or someone from the community with some game done who could 'coach' you. Don't buy any products. It's waste o money(at least for now). Look ak Ntropys journal here in Daygame stories section. He struggled with approaching too(but he have done some) and in his late post he's describing a day with a coach and it went quite well for him.
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The Sofa / Re: Here's the TRUTH about Day Game...
« on: January 02, 2012, 09:05:07 AM »
Kyle - yes, it's a number game.
spinaroonie - you're right
spinaroonie - you're right
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The Sofa / Re: Here's the TRUTH about Day Game...
« on: January 02, 2012, 02:13:31 AM »
Like Amazin said "Thats not the truth about daygame though, its just an observation.". For me it's so obvious that it's not even worh mentioning. But frankly it pisses me off when I see infield videos with foreign chicks. It gives you the fake image of how easy it is whereas the guy has half of the work done because of this.
It's nothing you can do. The game is the same. The only difference is lower success ratio. Tom posted his 2011 results. He had 9% lay success so I think with local girls it could be 4% tops which isn't much. One can wonder if it is worth the time.
It's nothing you can do. The game is the same. The only difference is lower success ratio. Tom posted his 2011 results. He had 9% lay success so I think with local girls it could be 4% tops which isn't much. One can wonder if it is worth the time.
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Self Perception (Inner Game) / Re: trouble keeping it going
« on: January 01, 2012, 06:49:23 AM »22
The Mail Bag / Re: Down To Fuck
« on: December 31, 2011, 12:00:51 AM »
I think it's more about feeling it rather then seeing it so any written word is useless here. See Direct Dating Summit. David X and Alan Roger Currie talk about how they know when the girl get wet. Badboy also talks about how he can spot girls that are DTF. He explains it exactly like I said - it's the feeling, the vibe, not somethnig that can be described.
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The Sofa / Re: How to get girls to approach you
« on: December 25, 2011, 11:58:08 PM »
BE a MAN or go and get vaginoplasty. There are no other choices.
merry christmas
merry christmas
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Self Perception (Inner Game) / Re: Self honesty vs. visualizing success
« on: December 23, 2011, 09:02:03 PM »
It's very simple.
- First you have to be honest with yourself with where you are now. Accept that you are unhappy with your current situation(otherwise you would not be here).
- Second you visualize where you want to be - set a goal. See yourself in situations and compare yourself now and your designated self. Concentrate on differences between those two personalities.
- Third you find what you have to do to achieve your goal - baby steps, the more the better. Don't try to change yourself in one day like many people are trying to do. It'll take time. And in my POV this is the hardest thing to do in life. Many men would rather go to die into war then to talk to a random woman
It's basically a reversed engineering(if you are an IT guy).
The "problem with 'rationalizing' between where you are and where you want to be or who you are now and who you want to be tomorrow" just doesn't exist. You are evolving every day and the only thing you're doing is consciousnessly changing the direction you're heading to.
I'm telling myself that I love myself but I'm not happy with myself. It's big difference not loving yourself(=hating) and being unhappy with yourself. If you hate yourself you will never be able to be happy and you'll be depressed. If you love yourself you can always change things so you will be happy with yopurself.
- First you have to be honest with yourself with where you are now. Accept that you are unhappy with your current situation(otherwise you would not be here).
- Second you visualize where you want to be - set a goal. See yourself in situations and compare yourself now and your designated self. Concentrate on differences between those two personalities.
- Third you find what you have to do to achieve your goal - baby steps, the more the better. Don't try to change yourself in one day like many people are trying to do. It'll take time. And in my POV this is the hardest thing to do in life. Many men would rather go to die into war then to talk to a random woman
It's basically a reversed engineering(if you are an IT guy).
The "problem with 'rationalizing' between where you are and where you want to be or who you are now and who you want to be tomorrow" just doesn't exist. You are evolving every day and the only thing you're doing is consciousnessly changing the direction you're heading to.
I'm telling myself that I love myself but I'm not happy with myself. It's big difference not loving yourself(=hating) and being unhappy with yourself. If you hate yourself you will never be able to be happy and you'll be depressed. If you love yourself you can always change things so you will be happy with yopurself.
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The Sofa / Re: hours before i go out to approach have mad anxiety....when im out there im ok?
« on: December 22, 2011, 12:49:47 PM »
I don't know about that but when I played baseball years ago I always felt nervous. Once in the field everything was ok. So maybe it's something like that but maybe it's not.
I've read that the main reason for (approaching)anxiety is that guys restrict themselves to approach only in certain time in a day and that's the reason they feel the anxiety and nervousness since they put pressure on that period of time. If they won't restrict themselves and approach throughout the whole day the AA diminish.
I've read that the main reason for (approaching)anxiety is that guys restrict themselves to approach only in certain time in a day and that's the reason they feel the anxiety and nervousness since they put pressure on that period of time. If they won't restrict themselves and approach throughout the whole day the AA diminish.
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Suggestions Box / MILF game
« on: December 21, 2011, 08:35:50 PM »
The title says it all. Younger guys hitting on older-ish woman.
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The Sofa / Re: New infield street kiss close by Sasha :)
« on: December 16, 2011, 01:09:29 AM »Yet another day game video of an American/Canadian/British/Aussie guy gaming a pleasant, feminine Eastern European girl with middling English.
Why are there few legitimate day game videos of guys approaching Anglo girls? In the US/Canada/Britain?
This is why:
Here's the mindset of a man doing direct day game: "I'm ballsy. I'm a man. I'm going to make my intentions known. She'll get wet for me cuz I'm so ALPHA."
Here's what the woman in Anglosphere is thinking: "Eww... creep. Go away."
Direct day game doesn't work for average-looking guys in Anglo countries. This is especially true in the feminized Anglosphere where strange men are assumed to be creeps and potential rapists.
A balls-out direct opener works best when it's done by an Anglo man on non-feminist women (Eastern Europeans, foreign-born Asians) who will be awed by his higher socioeconomic status, and who still respect masculinity.
When direct day game PUA Krauser (krauserpua.com) ran his direct style of street game in London he got shut down hard by the local English girls. When he switched his targets to Eastern European girls he had much more success - coincidence?
I agree with you that most guys are gaming non-local girls. I'm from Slovakia and so far I've only seen UK/London guys hitting on
a) foreing chicks - they moved into uk and are new in town/working seasonal job/studying english..
b) local girls in other countries where their origin makes them 'exotic'
I've wrote about it here http://daygame.com/cafe/index.php/topic,944
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Actions & Techniques (Outer Game) / Re: The Power Of Silence
« on: December 15, 2011, 11:15:59 PM »
Laurence: IMO woman talk more because that's the way they bond with each other. They are more emotional so they need to communicate(verbally) more. Men on the other hand talk less because we are more logical than emotional so we get straight to the point = we talk less. Also we bond through action more than woman do = we don't need to talk so much.
Lummers: I think I get what you mean but you presented it in misleading way(IMO). See James Marshall videos. He uses silence quite often. He's not affraid to put the pressure on the girl by being quiet. She'll 'crack' and starts talking because she'll be more unconfortable with the silence then you. Silence is powerfull but you have to be really confident with it and not be affraid of it.
If you'll listen to or see some videos of David X you'll see how slow he talks. How long pauses he uses. It's quite similar and powerfull but in other way with different intent.
Lummers: I think I get what you mean but you presented it in misleading way(IMO). See James Marshall videos. He uses silence quite often. He's not affraid to put the pressure on the girl by being quiet. She'll 'crack' and starts talking because she'll be more unconfortable with the silence then you. Silence is powerfull but you have to be really confident with it and not be affraid of it.
If you'll listen to or see some videos of David X you'll see how slow he talks. How long pauses he uses. It's quite similar and powerfull but in other way with different intent.
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The Sofa / Re: What's your success ratios
« on: December 15, 2011, 10:59:50 PM »
Skents: I really don't care if you like numbers and stats because the truth is that if you're not getting laid you're wasting your time.
(I can play football for many years but if I'm not scoring goals there is no point in that. And many guys forgetting that. IMO.)
Back to the topic. It's important to get real with this because when newbies come to this they see many videos of successfull aproaches(by PUAs)/marketing and think how many pussy they'll get, how many girls they'll meet, how good they'll be socially.... When they experience failure they're crushed because they've expected something else. I know this from my personal experience and from experiences by other guys I know. The result is that failure make you depressed and you end up back where you've been before and you are happy because there is no more pressure and depression from not being seccussful. This often repeats. That's why so many guys quit within a year or less. So getting real 'data' is in my opinion very important so guys won't idealize pickup as some magic pill to their problems and lack of happiness in their live.
Second thing is I personally would like to know if guys out there are more successful with direct approach or indirect approach. The debate is stil ongoing and real data can shine some light on this.
The only guys(gurus if you will) I know going pure direct are Sasha, Alan, Badboy and David X. Everybody else is going indirect. Many guys/PUAs think that if they'll open with situational opener or by cimplimenting the girl they are direct which is just not true.
(I can play football for many years but if I'm not scoring goals there is no point in that. And many guys forgetting that. IMO.)
Back to the topic. It's important to get real with this because when newbies come to this they see many videos of successfull aproaches(by PUAs)/marketing and think how many pussy they'll get, how many girls they'll meet, how good they'll be socially.... When they experience failure they're crushed because they've expected something else. I know this from my personal experience and from experiences by other guys I know. The result is that failure make you depressed and you end up back where you've been before and you are happy because there is no more pressure and depression from not being seccussful. This often repeats. That's why so many guys quit within a year or less. So getting real 'data' is in my opinion very important so guys won't idealize pickup as some magic pill to their problems and lack of happiness in their live.
Second thing is I personally would like to know if guys out there are more successful with direct approach or indirect approach. The debate is stil ongoing and real data can shine some light on this.
The only guys(gurus if you will) I know going pure direct are Sasha, Alan, Badboy and David X. Everybody else is going indirect. Many guys/PUAs think that if they'll open with situational opener or by cimplimenting the girl they are direct which is just not true.
