So one should just quit "cold turkey"? I don't think that's healthy.

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Hi. First of all I really don't want to sound negatively but this bothers me.

I saw a video where a guy summed up his year of picking up girls. I don't know if he did only daygame but that's not important. He said that he did 2000 approaches in one year and got laid 12 times. If you take a global ratio 1:10 for having sex with a woman you had a date with this means he had 120 dates from his 2000 approaches. From those 120 dates(with some girls more than one of course) 108 girls didn't have sex with him(= over 120x money and time spending + 2000 time spending). So if you look at those 2000 approaches and the outcome of having sex with 12 girls I'm asking: is it worth it? I understand that all of us get into the game for sex and gaming is more about the personal change than the sex itself but when you look at the investment and reward isn't starting up a business(or something like that) a better choice to spend your time when you're young? Isn't a better choice to secure yourself financially and then spend your time trying to get woman? It's much cheaper to spend 12x 50?/100? on escort girls when you count the time you're spending.

Daygame(and pickup overall) sounds really great to newbies(like magic pill) but If you don't want to became another PU trainer, is it really the right thing to spend time on? Let's say you are 23, you've just discovered 'game' and it takes you 5 years to be the best as you can be in it. You are now 28 and you have no (big)money, you probably don't own anything valuable and work 9-5 job. You are an ordinary guy with good social life. Yes you may be 'happy' but in 10 years you may regred the time. It's like an education - you didn't do you'r ing or phd and now it's too late.

Maybe all I'm saying is don't take gaming too seriously. Of course more approaches = more success. But where's the line?

You can't expect to approach right away. It'll take time. Very few do it right away, some take few hours to do it, some days, some weeks and some even years. If you're doing it alone it will take a longer time to do it or any other stuff than if you'd be with some friend or wing man or coach. Don't expect success too soon. Even if you approach it'll take many many approaches to get somewhere. Read Directors journal here or Ntropy's. It's a journey and after half a year - year you'll get some solid results, not sooner.

Many give up because it's just too hard(very few try again(including me) after time). Even less succeed.
"Many men would rather go to war than to approach a woman." - there is some truth in that.

99.9% of such couples are guys from girl's social circle. Since she doesn't have much choice she'll end up with some looser even if she is 7+(hot).

On the other hand she called you and keeps replying to your texts. But since you didn't pull the trigger when you were at your house(she gave yo ua chance and you didn't take the shot) i think it's better to delete the number.

BTW: WELL DONE!!! 10 years old and you are only 20, that's so fucking awesome!

All your choices look like girls who have won the genetic lottery - Darwinism in its purest form.

Actualy it's all just make-up and expensive haircut. Many woman out there don't take much care of them selves but if they did there would be so much more beautiful woman you can't even imagine.

There are many but my No. 1 for now is Olivia Wilde