This is the reason why the BEST LOOKING PICK-UP ARTISTS tend to have great trouble getting sexual relationships with young girls in their prime. They mostly get their women in very late 20?s and early 30?s. I took notes. It is especially difficult when they already have a social circle with their dream boyfriend. Even if you got her number, to actually see her again and have sex with her will be difficult.

why would you want to sleep with a girl who currently has a 'dream boyfriend' ? that's douchebag territory right there. if she's happy with her man and you run some game just cos you want to fuck her, then you're doing her a disservice in the long run and possibly screwing up a relationship just to get your dick wet. that's pretty pathetic behaviour and does not come from an abundant mindset.

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so u either are a complete scam and are lying about all the girls you sleep and probably a bad coach..or your a creep....I would give my money and learn from the guy who is a "creep" and sleeps with a lot of women..than a guy who claims it with no proof, after all you have to understand this is a business, if they have to risk being sued, so be it...also ANYONE can go out and get a phone number, that's the easy part..making the number solid, figuring  on ur logistic and landing the girl is where you separate the boys from the men..
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well i'm neither a scam or a coach (heaven forfend). just to clarify that one old chap. and i would personally take the third option (which you have failed to list) that involves not spending a penny on coaching/products and buying myself some decent threads instead. honestly, having seen some footage lately i;'m certain guys would do better with girls if they learned to dress right, but that's a story for another night kiddiwinks.

the truth? no.    a truth? yes

you play to your strengths. that's common sense surely. i live in a foreign county and being british is a big bonus for me. its kinda exotic, chicks want to practice their english and having an english speaking boyfriend can be almost a status thing. how do you think i feel about that ? fucking great.

for guys who live in their home city of course it's easier to hook up with a tourist. they're on holiday and they want to have fun. they are literally investing money into having a good time. if the holiday is going to be a good one, then it will involve meeting lots of people, and quite possibly sleeping with some of them. that's the nature of a good holiday.

they dont know the city or the culture and suddenly up pops a cool guy/possible date/tour guide/font of all local knowledge rolled into one. you're valuable to them. of course there's going to be more chance of getting to sleep with them, than some super popular socialite who is constantly getting invited out by her social circle. girls with large social circle's are by nature going to know more guys, those guys will be trying to bang her and will have the advantage of not just being some random guy.

however dont rule out womens craving for romance. and it's my honest belief that meeting women in the day can be very romantic. watch a hugh grant style rom-com. they are written for the female market - is he hooking up with the women via his social circle, internet dating, whilst out on the piss ? no, it's nearly always a random, out of the blue meeting. which in a way is a bit like daygame. women like that shit. and i for one like that they like that shit.

so yeah, you play to your strengths. nowt wrong with that lad.

this is just thinking out loud, but i followed a link from here to another guys PUA racket and its rammed with in field footage. he makes a deal about having 'proof' of lays. now this i find to be creepy as fuck.

it's one thing i guess when people (like this site) approach a girl and film it - morally dubious perhaps to upload it on the net and have uber-geeks (as they would probably see it) study it on net, but its not the end of the world. i always wonder if the girls ever find out, and how they'd react ? i'd imagine they might find it kinda creepy and some could conceivably get angry about it, but still its just them talking to a guy in a shopping centre or whatever.

but the guy with the 'proof' actually takes pictures of girls going into his house, getting undressed and even one of her asleep in her undies. now that is creepy as fuck. its like they're trophies or something. i was kind of shocked as in the modern litigation crazy world surely you'd be leaving yourself wide open for a lawsuit with that kinda schtick ?

What? you mean girls that would shag any lad they come across? It happens trust me. They are slags. Don't think of it as some sort of huge achievement to shag a slag. They exist.

The achievement is laying a very secure and respectable girl. My best friend has shagged 64 girls, but they were mostly slags and any half decent looking guy could have shagged them.

The chances fo approaching a slag are much higher than approaching a fully secure and respectable girl.

am i right in assuming that if you, as a man, went out and pulled a beautiful woman, who was just interested in having some great non-complicated, fully protected sex with a cool guy, that you would consider that a good thing ?  if your answer is yes, then why would you wish to deprive that exerience to an entire gender ?

there's a lot that could be said in responce to the mentality you're displaying here, but life is short and i have better things to do than list them all now, so in essence mate, grow up.

well i'd never say that reading or learning anything is 'bad' in itself. just that it may not neccesarilly yield the results you would like. and in this particular instance could even prove detrimental. this obviously depends on the text you use, but as pointed out earlier, filling your head full of academic concepts (eg thinking mid conversation "ooh i probably need to be making an 'intent statement XYZ' about now"), when really you'd be better just being present and listening to what the persons saying.

that said i'm sure if you do study great conversationalists (chat show hosts, radio djs etc) i'm pretty sure they would have had some kind of formal communication training, so i wouldnt be too dogmatic either way.

i've always been interested in the history of storytelling in human society. going back to the dawn of language people sat round campfires and talked, told lies, and communicated. i'm pretty sure shakespeare never read 'how to spice up your small talk' or whatever the fuck, and he was pretty hip with the english language.

in conclusion read for your own pleasure - if you have an academic mind and enjoy those kind of studies, then yeah why not, just dont get too caught up in it all in the real world.

i'm still amazed some people would consider paying $297 for a fucking dvd. serously, all the love in the world to you chaps, but some of you must be either minted or mental, or possibly both

seriously, you wear shoes like that and still get laid ? respect is due