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Not to sound nasty, but what the heck are you posting on the Daygame website for internet dating advice for?  This isn't really the right forum for this.  In fact I'd say it was the total antithesis of what Day game is about, i.e. actually getting to talk with women as soon as possible!

Get out there and start talking to em!

Zan

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The Sofa / Re: Being open about Daygame
« on: April 03, 2012, 09:28:57 PM »
Why do you feel it's necessary to "make excuses" as to where you're going or why you're going there?  Do you need to have permission to feel good about doing something?  Are your parents/friends always checking up on you?

If they ask, just say you're hanging in town... a perfectly normal activity in itself.

Why do alot of guys on here need so much self-validation?

DayGame isn't such the radical thing people are making out.  All you're doing is being sociable... that's it!  It's about having the choice of speaking to whoever you want.  There are no limits in life.. only those which we impose on ourselves.

Zan

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Self Perception (Inner Game) / Re: Perception of other guys
« on: February 13, 2012, 05:44:02 PM »
Thanks guys,

It's great to know I'm not the only one who feels like this.  It's almost like I feel like I'm just a little kid in a grown up body (I'm 35 soon!  Blimey!)

I've had a few "relationships" and have been burned because I was no where near experienced enough to handle the sh*t I was dealt.  I started with women late in life so feel I've got a lot to catch up on.

I also really don't feel ready for a relationship at all (do you ever feel ready??)  There's this woman I get on with well at the moment and I'm marginally attracted to her (she's not that attractive though).  I just don't want to settle down with anyone when I haven't got this side of my life sorted!

Cheers,

Zan

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Self Perception (Inner Game) / Re: Being over-sensitive to criticism......
« on: February 06, 2012, 01:17:48 PM »
To put it bluntly mate, it sounds like you're kind of asking for it by making such a thing out of your conquests (showing pictures etc.)  The phrase "a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell" springs to mind.  It might sound a bit old-fashioned but in your case it applies.

Why do you deem it necessary to talk about your conquests etc.. self-validation maybe?

You're making them jealous and they are reacting.

Zan

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Self Perception (Inner Game) / Perception of other guys
« on: January 31, 2012, 11:15:02 PM »
Hi guys,

I keep having these flash thoughts where I perceive alot of these other guys with girls as so much more confident/comfortable, or to look at it another way "acting in the right way".  Now, I'm pretty confident in myself and happy being who I am but I always think to myself that I'm just not "that" guy and that women don't see me in that way.  I feel frustrated at not knowing how to attain that coolness.

My natural personality is a bit of a joker, not often serious and quick to laugh and smile.

How do I use these traits to become the guy above?

This is a serious inner game issue with me and even though I can do day game and I love it (still newbie though) I can't see how "being me" is going to keep the chicks long term..  I'm pretty crap at relationships and haven't been able to hold one down for more than a few months...

Cheers,


Zan

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Daygame Blueprint / Re: Yads concept of being a "social animal"
« on: December 28, 2011, 01:42:44 PM »
Thanks guys.

I had a feeling it was something like this.  Just being really sociable and outgoing in general... in every aspect of your life contributes towards your "game", and has a snowball effect..

Awesome.

You know, as you get older.. you start to realise that everything you do in life affects every other part sort of like in the game "The Sims".. a nice way of thinking about it.. very encouraging.

~Zan

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The Mail Bag / A Blueprint question for discussion
« on: December 24, 2011, 10:56:24 AM »
Hi,

I've just posted on another board here and have posted the link to avoid duplication.

But I think this would be a good topic on a pod cast..

http://daygame.com/cafe/index.php/topic,1192.0.html

Cheers,

Zan

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Daygame Blueprint / Yads concept of being a "social animal"
« on: December 24, 2011, 10:51:51 AM »
Hiya,

On the BluePrint, Yad mentions that when he first started out he used to just go out and be this "social animal".  A specific example of this was when he was discussing going for a job interview at Apple.  He said that before the interview he went out on the streets for about four hours, and expressed himself and became at one with society - and did some crazy shit.  This then really helped him in the interview.

Could anyone explain the kind of stuff he was doing?

Or maybe Yad could just pop in here to embellish this?

Cheers,

Zan

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The Sofa / Re: Quantity and speeding up the learning curve?
« on: December 24, 2011, 10:34:19 AM »
Personally, I think that I only learn a certain amount from watching the BluePrint Vids (and any other form of training info).  I don't know about other people, but I can only take in a certain amount of information at a time, so watching the whole series would be entertaining, but pointless.

Instead, focus on the areas in which you're struggling - This is difficult when you fear it and associate it with anxiety.. but I think mostly this is due to the fact that before you're in that given situation, you ruminate about not being good at it yet.

As we get older we find it a difficult concept to accept that things actually DO take a certain amount of time to learn...  I mean, can you remember how long it look you to learn to walk.. or to speak?  Probably not, because you were too young back then - all things seem this way as you realise that you need more work on a given area... and that there is no magic bullet so to speak.

Enjoy the journey now.. because when you get good at this, you'll probably take it for granted and the excitement of it all will be much less.  And speaking purely for myself.. but at my level (newbie with about 16 approaches under my belt) I actually find the experience of just approaching in the first place, fulfilling enough at the moment... once I get through this, I can start to push myself further.

Zan

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The Sofa / Re: holy crap, things are taking off...
« on: November 21, 2011, 09:53:23 AM »
I totally disagree balu.

I would probably only class myself as a 5-6 (think Simon Pegg, but not so cute!)  And since I started recently, I have had 95% positive responses... and I've only just begun, so my assumption stacking etc.. are pretty crap at the minute.

I'm very confident that with lots of practice and experience I will start bagging me some hotties.

I think you have a very conventional frame balu.

Zan

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Daygame Blueprint / Re: DG Blueprint Product
« on: November 03, 2011, 01:58:52 PM »
Well, I bought it a few days ago and have been watching bits every day...  And I must say so far I'm highly impressed.  I was a bit skeptical before I bought it and wondered if it was going to be bad.

But it is very professional, humourous, informative and motivational.

Not only that, but as I was watching it last night, I almost felt as if I was getting to know Andy and Yad a bit more.. it felt like they were gaming me!!!  ;)

Big thanks to all the hard work that went into it.  I think the price is right too!

Zanny

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Daygame Blueprint / Re: DG Blueprint Product
« on: October 31, 2011, 10:28:31 AM »
Thanks Rob,

I'm pretty certain I'm gonna buy it.  I know that ultimately you have to put in the field work to gain the mental robustness necessary, and that no amount of "class-room" based work will properly prepare you for reality, but it's nice to benefit from the experience of others.

I'll treat myself (Happy Christmas to me ;-)

Zan

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Daygame Blueprint / DG Blueprint Product
« on: October 30, 2011, 10:25:38 PM »
Hi guys,

Just wanted to know if anyone had bought it yet.. and what they thought of it?  Is it worth the money.. or have most of the topics been covered in the free content which has been generously provided by Monsieurs Yosha and Yad on this web site??

Thanks

Zan

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