Now I've been really focusing on my inner game for the past few months. It's been really successful, I've began to feel great and happy all the time. I no longer feel sorry for myself and depressed about things, and have learned to love life!
And I realise after watching a very nice video today on youtube, that the reason I feel so good, is because I've learned, or am beginning to learn how to love myself. That's all we need to do. Love yourself and you will feel the happiness and love spread, and others will start loving you for it too.
Now I'm not saying you can flick a switch and suddenly be happy and love yourself, but working towards it, accepting who you are. Accepting your strength, and your flaws, and being happy with them, and working with them, you can feel the difference in yourself, and freedom it creates.
Now if you want to have a look at the video that helped me realise why I was feeling this way here it is: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l3fuqA6auDI&feature=related
Her videos are pretty good for inner game of what I've seen so far. And I hope that this post helps you onto the path of happiness!