I'm not really kino escalating, and it shows, flakes like crazy, need to correct this for a target, how'd I go from introducing myself in college to kiss/make-out, as fast as possible, without taking her to mine to isolate. Most kino stuff, like arm touching when talking doesn't feel fluent with my type of communication, I'm not that kinda guy. I know vin di carlos escalation ladder, but it's hard to use in corridor situations between lessons, or walk to mcdonalds or w/e. Maybe you just gotta tell me to man up and get on with it or any advice, either way, It's nice for some support!

I'm a teenager(not made of money), no car (so no far away places) and wondering what ideas for dates and hanging out with girls you'd suggest, I'm from England if that helps at all.

I mean, cinema is bad, there's no decent restaurants that are not super pricey, or romantic enough. The bowling alley is shitty, waste of money. Only decent thing I can think of is ice skating, however I can't skate. Plus I'm planning on mass hangout, won't be good for my wallet. Anything nice and preferable free to do? Can't take her home to mine by the way.

Hope there's enough detail for a nice little list for me!

I've been having that kind of problem. The thing you gotta do is really put yourself out there, go to the point of no return. If you're anything like me, you'll of casually mentioned it, but you gotta ask her  out formally. Unless you've got a plan for the night, and sound like you've got everything covered then she'll not end up coming. Something like "You're coming round mine Thursday night for dinner, which do you prefer, noodles or pizza?" details + not actually asking her but telling her = success. I mean it's not bulletproof, but if I'm right then it'll help!

Basic Formula: You're coming to (activity) on (day), do you want (option 1) or (option 2)?

Can't wait to hear how it goes!

Now I've been really focusing on my inner game for the past few months. It's been really successful, I've began to feel great and happy all the time. I no longer feel sorry for myself and depressed about things, and have learned to love life!
And I realise after watching a very nice video today on youtube, that the reason I feel so good, is because I've learned, or am beginning to learn how to love myself. That's all we need to do. Love yourself and you will feel the happiness and love spread, and others will start loving you for it too.
Now I'm not saying you can flick a switch and suddenly be happy and love yourself, but working towards it, accepting who you are. Accepting your strength, and your flaws, and being happy with them, and working with them, you can feel the difference in yourself, and freedom it creates.

Now if you want to have a look at the video that helped me realise why I was feeling this way here it is: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l3fuqA6auDI&feature=related

Her videos are pretty good for inner game of what I've seen so far. And I hope that this post helps you onto the path of happiness!


peace,