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The Sofa / Re: Interested in a FREE Daygame Residential?
« on: February 17, 2015, 09:51:02 AM »
Sounds awesome man, If I was still in the UK at that time I'd fly over for a bit of a Euro jaunt

Actions & Techniques (Outer Game) / Re: Authentic communication and rapport
« on: February 16, 2015, 03:57:19 PM »
I'm not convinced you're genuinely on here to improve this area of your life, however after reading your response I have to ask; Why are you on a date with her if you're not interested in finding out about her?

I'm not sure what your question is but I think you're referring to generating attraction and "flipping the script."

There's a tonne of posts on here about that, search for topics on "qualification" "disqualification" "push-pull" and "re-framing." - These are key underlying concepts for generating attraction.

Yeah DATM is a pretty useful place to start.

Be sure not to go on a theory binge before you start approaching, it'll fuck you up and take longer to get results, I talk from experience :)

The Sofa / Re: Does anyone know about John Cooper?
« on: February 16, 2015, 12:33:00 PM »
He just got slammed over on Krausers blog for promoting what is essentially a higher form of avoidance i.e. basically anything that isn't cold approaching.

If your a guy who isn't actually approaching women you're attracted to, watching his stuff isn't going to help you one bit.

Saying that, I don't think he's a bad guy.

The Sofa / Re: i am really nervous to do daygame. how do i do this?
« on: February 16, 2015, 12:28:57 PM »
There's a billion posts on here that answer all your questions - use the search function.

Basically there's no amount of material you can read to eradicate your fear of the approach, the only way you'll get over this is to actually approach women.

As you're a newbie, I'd actually recommend going out and approaching without any theory in your head. Then use the forum to answer specific sticking points you run into.

If you do what most people do (me included) and gorge on all the theory you can get your hands on, it actually makes the whole thing more difficult and you'll always be in your head instead of the present when you're talking to a hot woman.

Believe me when I tell you 'less is more' when it comes to this stuff.

The product Date Against The Machine is a decent place to start if you're in the market for a product to help you.

Good luck :)

Actions & Techniques (Outer Game) / Re: Authentic communication and rapport
« on: February 16, 2015, 10:58:35 AM »
Yeah don't talk about any of your favourite topics, no offence but you've probably just populated a list of topics guaranteed to turn her pussy from a gushing waterfall into the sahara desert.

There's a basic rule to follow on a date with a girl you've not fucked yet and that's to keep the conversation 90% about her and only 10% about you.

Over the first part of the date you want to talk about normal things like what she does for work, where she's from, what she wants to do in the future etc..I normally follow the past-present-future model. Be sure to drop the odd spike in to stop it becoming just a boring conversation.

The part you're talking about is the next bit of the date where you go a bit deeper into rapport. Again you want to focus the majority of the conversation about her but instead of hairdresser topics, you need to talk about deeper topics like her hopes/dreams, her passions and other topics that elicit emotional responses from her.

It's this process of getting her to invest emotionally that they mean by Authentic Communication.

The Sofa / Re: 5 Minute Infield Video Approach
« on: February 12, 2015, 07:03:41 PM »
I can't see the video but one caveat to the advice you've been given about eye contact is that it's okay to break it, just do so when she is talking every now and again.

When you're talking to her, you want to maintain solid eye contact, then on occasion when she is investing, let your eyes wander off as though you are temporarily distracted.

This is what high value people do and is also a component of fractionation (push-pull).

The Sofa / Re: yad stop at night
« on: February 11, 2015, 09:36:31 PM »
No. Just give her plenty of space, works the same as it does in the day

The Sofa / Re: How to deal with "nice try but I have a boyfrend"?
« on: February 08, 2015, 08:06:07 PM »
I feel compelled to reply because the advice above is subpar.

Most of it on the forum is.

Simply say... "I don't want to be your boyfriend" or "I don't care" and keep talking about whatever. Do not flinch when you deliver it.

Is exactly what I just said.

The Sofa / Re: How to deal with "nice try but I have a boyfrend"?
« on: February 08, 2015, 06:18:36 PM »
If the girl drops an "IHAB" from the moment you start talking to her, it is likely she is rejecting you.

Your response if she drops it in later can either be qualifying or disqualifying.

Qualifying responses are best used on girls you feel are already attracted to you. Something like ?that?s OK, I?m not the jealous type.? then continue the interaction.

Disqualifying responses can be used on girls that you need to "flip the script" on e.g. ?No worries. You?re not my type.? (said with a smile on your face) and continue.

Either way it's going to be a flat out rejection or a shit test and if it's the latter just brush it off non-reactively with one of the above.

The Sofa / Re: First time this happened
« on: February 06, 2015, 05:24:51 PM »
It was a shit test. Agree & amplify with a cocky grin on your face next time

Instead of asking if it's ambitious in a post why don't you try it and then you'll have your answer along with valuable experience. [hidden message here guys...]

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