« on: May 30, 2012, 01:11:50 AM »
Hi my name is Ian I have just recently finished watching The Daygame Blueprint and after watching the program I have come to believe that daygame is possible. Learning the structure and seeing Yad go out and just vibe with women and get there numbers has motivated me to finally give this a try.
For the last week I have been going to the mall every other day to try and meet women. I have pulled off a few Yad stops but most of my approaches are women who are by themselves in stores, I just don't feel comfortable yet to pull of 2+ sets.
I usually approach the women with "Excuse me, I just saw you over there and I thought, you looked really nice, (Observational Statement about her outfit)". After I say my opener I will sometimes get a smile but mostly its a dry thank you and the girl will try to slowly wonder away. I will then try to forward the conservation by asking her name or whats she up too today but these usually do not go well as they are very cold with there responses or they will say things like why should I tell you, or I don't know you.
So far this has been the story of my daygame encounters it has been very hard for me to even get into the attraction phase, whats the problem is this normal when you first start daygame? Is there anything you guys see I'm doing wrong? I make eye contact, keep good posture, and project my voice but I do still have some butterfly's in my stomach when I approach can this be a problem? My main questions as of now are how can I get her to loosen up in the beginning of the interaction, and what are some good transitions to use after the opener in daygame.
As of right now I have gone through this mostly with the occasional blowout and no numbers but I am not discouraged. I am just looking to see if this is normal when you are first starting daygame and what are some ways to improve my responses. I want to become good with women and daygame I have been running from women this my entire life and now I'm willing to put in the work to become good. Thanks you guys and look forward to the help.