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The Sofa / Re: How to overcome approach anxiety?
« on: April 13, 2012, 08:42:42 AM »
Yeah I spent the day out today and while I did some approaches and played my warm up games and I am impressed by 10 approaches in five hours you are doing great brother.

Ghost

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Self Perception (Inner Game) / Re: suggestion needed:how to gain self confidence with women?
« on: April 12, 2012, 09:16:07 AM »
Mathew Hussey said something that stuck with me. First you do the thing you are scared of and then you get the confidence.
There is no replacement for experience but there are lots of avenues to help you.
Watch the videos and listen to the podcasts on day game lots of advice. Especially in the podcast about gaming solo.
Also look into some hypnotica material he is incredibly inspiring.

Ghost

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The Mail Bag / Re: Goal Setting?
« on: April 11, 2012, 11:20:22 PM »
Oh I think I get it.
So are you suggesting take the goals in smaller chunks as opposed to bigger picture is the best way to go?

Chase

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The Mail Bag / Goal Setting?
« on: April 11, 2012, 06:13:31 AM »
A lot of people advocate setting goals for maximum productivity. And greatest effect requires specific goals. I am having trouble coming up with ways to specifically state my goals for day game beyond "being able to meet attractive women during the day". I was wondering if you guys could share some of your personal goals when you first began and maybe some of your current goals?

Ghost

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Actions & Techniques (Outer Game) / Plan for tomorrow
« on: April 11, 2012, 05:50:24 AM »
I get back into the city tomorrow and I have plans to try stopping someone for the first time. Im taking two female friends out with me to have fun and socialize. The reason I am posting it on here is I figure it is extra motivation for me to follow through.
I figured we would play the hi game I mentioned in a previous post and I would hopefully build up some momentum .
Talk to you soon.

Ghost

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The Sofa / Re: empty street
« on: April 10, 2012, 12:48:48 AM »
Id go for it anyway. I have been in a lot of situations when I was run to or ran at someone I knew. If she turns around be smiling and give a little wave and odds are she will think you must know her (At least with most people thats the first reaction I get with a wave). If that doesn't work then you have more information about the situation and will have a better response for that situation in the future.
Good luck and tell us how it goes.


Ghost

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Actions & Techniques (Outer Game) / Re: Doing "outlandish" things to build immediate confidence
« on: April 09, 2012, 10:12:02 PM »
I find that waving at people UNTIL they wave back very helpful and it usually gets a laugh from both me and the wavee. Sticking my tongue out at people on escalators and just general goofing around builds right into approaching with a genuine compliment for me.

Ghost

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The Sofa / Re: empty street
« on: April 09, 2012, 10:05:28 PM »
Why not are you talking about night time?

Ghost

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The Sofa / Re: Pick Up In China
« on: April 09, 2012, 10:04:25 PM »
My roommate had a somewhat casual relationship with a foreign (French we are in the US) and it basically had all the constraints that you just suggested. Although she is still "sticky" I here about this guy still almost every other day. But good luck have some fun and share whats working for you.

Ghost

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The Sofa / Re: Pick Up In China
« on: April 09, 2012, 12:10:32 AM »
My understanding is that open relationships in traditional chinese culture are rare. As my roommate puts is chinese girls are very "sticky".

Ghost

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The Sofa / Re: Pick Up In China
« on: April 07, 2012, 10:06:18 PM »
I have never lived in china but I do live in san Francisco and my roommate is a recent chinese immigrant so I am witness to her culture quite a lot. I will second the gossiping. After sleeping with a chinese girl that was only slightly connected to my roommates clique word spread to every person in that group in 24 hours. It was scary.

Ghost

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Self Perception (Inner Game) / Re: Self conscious in between sets
« on: April 07, 2012, 07:01:13 PM »
I have a very similar problem.

Between sets I always felt as if it LOOKED like I was out on the prowl. While I know that no one was really looking at me I didn't like feeling that way.

I found a couple of solutions that worked for me.

1. I bring a FRIEND with me. Not a wing. Just someone who knows I like to go out and be social. Basicly we are just out wandering. Most of my friends enjoy seeing me "do my thing" and I find it incredibly motivating and fun to have an audience (but I am a performer so this solution might not work for everyone)

2. I am out for a stroll. I bring my iPod and listen to an audiobook (non game related) while I am out. It makes ME feel like I am being more spontaneous.

Basically I just found that if I take the main focus off of approaches I feel less like I am on the pull and it alleviates some of that "guilt" of doing approaches.

Chase

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Self Perception (Inner Game) / Re: Why would women stop their activety to have a conversation with me?
« on: April 07, 2012, 06:43:23 PM »
I had a very similar mentality when I first started performing magic in restaurants.
"Why would they stop eating just to see me"

Then I realized I was bringing value into there evening. Someone said about magic once that what we are doing is giving them a story to tell for years. I believe the same thing applies to day game and pick up.
You ARE bringing value into her day because not all men can do what we are learning to do. Its unique. and even if it doesn't go well (No close, she has a bf, etc) you probably made her feel good about herself and she will be telling her friends and family about that guy who had the balls to just stop her and say he loved her style. (this is the mindset I am working on adopting)

And if you are scared of something bad happening something Sasha said really stuck with me, it either goes really well or its really fucking funny.

Ghost


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Actions & Techniques (Outer Game) / Re: A magicians warm up
« on: April 07, 2012, 06:35:02 PM »
hahaha Thanks. The more I am doing this warm up the more I am realizing that the idea of asking a girl to stop in the street is no more threatening than waving a stranger and sticking my tongue out when they wave back. Unfortunately I am out of the city right now and don't have the ability to do any approaches. But when I get back this thursday I am dropping my luggage off at the house and immediately going out and I want to get my first "stop".

Ghost

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Actions & Techniques (Outer Game) / Communication with a girl when you are out of town?
« on: April 07, 2012, 06:09:01 PM »
Sense I am out of town does anyone have any advice for keeping in touch with girls I am in contact with? There is one in particular that I have in mind.
We have gotten into the habit of talking a lot and all of our interactions carry a lot of flirtation and sexual tension. While I am out of town for a week is it better to keep that to a minimum? While I am in town our conversations are on the phone a lot but she lives down the street so it easily turns into "I have netflix hooked up to my tv bring some ice cream ill see you in ten minutes"
I guess from previous experience I am worried about her getting bored with just a text or message interaction?

Ghost

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