« on: January 06, 2012, 10:46:49 PM »
Of course, my friend, with the utmost respect, I kind of see where you're coming from and, in addition, it's true that different things work for different people.
However, I've never been a big fan of this "Excuse me" and this "I don't mean to interrupt you," business. Straight away, it just gives the impression that you are apologizing for taking up your space in the world.
In addition, if you are coming from the headspace that by approaching the girl you are GIVING value and not disturbing her and TAKING value, then why would you apologize for infusing her day with ten minutes of awesomeness that she is going to be telling her friends about that evening?
Girls are bored; they live to FEEL. If you go home on a night disappointed that you haven't pulled, think of how more disappointed girls feel after they've spent their hard-earned cash on the expensive perfume, a cool haircut, the push-up bra, the designer dress, and the fuck-me-high-heeled shoes.
But I agree that if it's coming from the right mindset, and your intent is to fuck the girl and not have a twenty minute conversation like you're coming across as her new gay window-shopping chum, it doesn't matter what you say, and we are probably talking about semantics here.
Just make sure you're looking at her like you want to devour the little lamb and crush her pussy hard.
The keys to opening are: (credit BB)
* Open face-to-face, non of this over the shoulder trash
* Don't lean in
* Open with with loud BR tonality (eg: "Hey"), sets the tone that you're a confident dominant man
* Laser Eye Focus
* Use good commanding tone of voice
* Lower the bar as to how entertaining or interesting your conversation has to be.
"The power of the direct approach is so strong, literally, if you open hard, attraction is like a light switch. DONE!"