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Actions & Techniques (Outer Game) / Re: What am I doing wrong?
« on: May 17, 2013, 09:01:18 AM »
Lol, chill mate.

As Hoho said we didnt hear your interaction or what you text to these girls so we cant really say.

Im not sure what country you are from but it is very rare in England for the girls to approach the guys they like. Maybe actually try and start daygaming as you must know enough about it due to the fact you found these forums!

It is a lot more satisfying to get somewhere with a girl anyway if you are the one who approached/chosen her and put the work in rather than her approaching you. We are men, this is our job.

So I would say to stop relying on these girls approaching you and get out there! :)

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The Sofa / Re: Introducing myself
« on: May 17, 2013, 08:46:36 AM »
If you are based in London then that is a perfect opportunity to find a wingman. Take a look at the Find a wing section here on the forum as there will be loads of guys based there.

A wing can be really helpful and just what you may need when starting out as you can provide support for each other and push each other into sets.

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The Sofa / Re: Is London saturated with daygamers?
« on: May 16, 2013, 02:01:52 PM »
I have thought about this recently as well. I don't currently live in London but want to move there in the future- not just for daygaming but for career and lifestyle in general.

I agree with others that there is soooo much more to London than bloody Oxford street. I dont have much interest in gaming there as there are so many other places to go. I have gamed there before and I wasnt that impressed with the quality of Women there as I heard that was the prime location.

Also as others have said which is important to remember; there are going to be guys of all types of levels. I also get the impression that there are normally a lot of beginners around that area. Not only that but there is a large drop out rate in daygame due to the fact it usually takes a while to start getting solid and consistent results from it.

I see it as though even if a girl has been approached before, if you have put the work in yourself then there is a good chance your approach will be better than the guys before. Just like in night game, if a girl has been approached a lot beforehand, the guy with the most solid game will still be the one getting the girl!

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The Sofa / Re: Paying for her to come see me.
« on: May 15, 2013, 10:02:08 AM »
Well yeah if you are certain she isnt using you for your money and you dont mind spending it then yeah I would go for it.

You could always make a joke out of it by saying she pays for the ticket to come to you but you pay for her return back home to make sure she doesn't move in with you or something lol ;)


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The Sofa / Re: Great, do you mind me continue browsing the shelves because I am out, shopping.
« on: May 10, 2013, 08:53:53 AM »
Quote from: Panorama on May 09, 2013, 09:37:25 PM
Quote from: romeolips on May 09, 2013, 08:37:25 PM
Not to sound holier than thou but I can't remember the last time a woman talked to me like that when I've given her a compliment -- usually, the worst is they just take off.

You're not coming off strong enough in your presence, you have to say it and behave it with full confidence and groundedness.  Otherwise, she senses something's off with you really quickly and just dismisses you like a fly bothering her.

You need to say it with Ooomph!  You need to come in and Boom!
Great stuff, nobody will be able to use. Next time you'll write something practical, idiot. Or even better, don't reply at all to my posts. I wouldn't mind, I would even appreciate that. More room for feasible advice.

Chill man. We are all here to help each other.

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The Sofa / Re: Setting up to become a PUA?
« on: May 09, 2013, 08:53:16 AM »
Yeah I agree with Rumba, it would take years and years of practice until you really are in the top percent of the population. Not only that but you have to have to be actually good at teaching. I also think you would of have to of been and slept with A LOT of girls through cold approach, at least double figures.

Oh and one more thing. Dont be concerned with this 'PUA' label.

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The Sofa / Re: Approach
« on: May 03, 2013, 09:18:29 AM »
If you are too nervous to keep the conversation going focus on just giving a girl a nice compliment then just walk away. Focus on just making her day.

Let us know how you get on :)

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The Sofa / Re: My Audio infields, if you can bare them
« on: May 02, 2013, 09:41:11 AM »
Hey mate, it is always hard to say because there is so much more to an interaction rather than just the words you say i.e. body language, eye contact etc. But....

With the first approach you said "Sorry did I get in your way" which means the chances are you didn't give her enough space when you approached her which could result in her getting frightened or shocked when you jump in front of her. Your observational statement was good as you noticed what she was wearing and what stood out to you but you could of carried on with a better assumption of where she comes from or what she does for a living going on what you see.

With the second and third approach the thing that stood out for me is that you have to listen more. As they key with assumptions is to get that first piece of information (which you did) from the girl which you can then use as a conversational topic. So as soon as you found out one was French and one was from California these were your topics you should have run with, so just then talk about where they are from. As Jon says it doesn't matter if you dont know much about these places as you can say "I dont know much about France but I think it would be like........."

This is how you hook her by 'sucking' her into a conversation lol ;)

Keep up the hard work mate! The first couple of minutes of a daygame approach are the hardest i.e. the attraction stage, as this is where you have to do all the work in getting the girl comfortable to speak to you.

Tom made a good video on it here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NAKbwznPcRc

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The Sofa / Re: Help with Day 2 situation please :)
« on: May 02, 2013, 09:08:15 AM »
Quote from: OscarDaygame on May 02, 2013, 03:53:40 AM

The real question is how should I now proceed? Should I go along for the luch date and then go for a more intimate one soon after

Yes, this.

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Self Perception (Inner Game) / Re: The Perils of Self-Belief versus The Power of Process
« on: May 01, 2013, 05:03:56 PM »
This is a great post and is something a lot of us intermediates can fall into.

I think a large part of it is that the initial excitement we got from all this when it was brand new has gone and we can sometimes loose some motivation to approach. I recently saw a video on YouTube from RSD Tyler on how to stay motivated with all of this in the long run by setting yourself new challenges etc.

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Self Perception (Inner Game) / Re: Supplication to Lower Value People.
« on: May 01, 2013, 02:00:12 PM »
You should never lower your own value to make others feel better and comfortable around you mate!

I understand why you are doing it but this isn't the way to get around it. When somebody is around another person of  a high value usually one of two things happen:

1) They do get insecure and might start getting jealous and then start 'hating' on you
2) They actually get inspired and then want to better themselves

Because in society number 1 happens so much people are too afraid to have the focus or spotlight on them and it is the same reason why you want to lower your value around others. It is also the reason why you say people dont like the new you and give you insults.

I know it sounds harsh but dont concern yourself with other peoples feelings in this way. It is up to each individual person on how they react when seeing the new you.  Dont restrict yourself around others as number 2 is what should be happening!

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The Sofa / Re: A moments decision changes the course of your life...
« on: April 26, 2013, 08:56:11 AM »
Quote from: chrisdafunk on April 25, 2013, 12:35:26 AM
I've read this post numerous times and it reminds me why we do this!

Cheers mate! I Appreciate it.

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The Sofa / Re: A moments decision changes the course of your life...
« on: April 23, 2013, 04:50:03 PM »
Quote from: romeolips on April 22, 2013, 07:46:12 PM
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It seems so strange to think and almost scary that what if I didn?t approach? What if I just carried on walking like 99% of other guys would do? I would never have met this amazing girl
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So the next time a girl walks past and you don?t approach, just think- what might I be missing out on?


Powerful words that every one of us daygamers should take to heart.  Every girl we meet is a serendipitous occasion.

Cheers. Its important to just remind ourselves of this from time to time.

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Self Perception (Inner Game) / Re: I am not fucking happy, do I have to fake it?
« on: April 23, 2013, 01:59:42 PM »
I would put daygame on the backburner for now as others have said you are still very young. Even if you carry on learning the techniques etc the girl will still sense your vibe is off as you are not happy.

I actually felt the same at your age. I started more hobbies which made me happier and then things started to really look up for me when I went to University at the age of 18.

Forget the daygame for now. Look at the other areas of your life and what you want to improve.

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The Sofa / Re: A moments decision changes the course of your life...
« on: April 22, 2013, 04:43:03 PM »
Will do. Looking forward to it ;)

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