I think Neil Strauss is in the country at the moment. I'd be interested to know his take on being a natural and not a robot. 

I'll second that. A pal I have which I met through game told me he heard through the grapevine that Neil Strauss, even after The Game, was still quite an introvert. He really relied on routine. So going direct would of still been a very hard thing for him to do. I'd love to hear his take on it.

Neil Strauss on the Podcast please!

Here's my question then: What is a 10?

Dependant on who you talk to & engage with, a 10 will vary in loads of ways. Most people think of a '10' as the ultimately perfect person they could see themselves spending a major part of their life (or even the rest of it) with, amazing in every way, voice, looks, personality, job etc. That would be my opinion anyway.

When I say 'think of yourselves as a 10' what I mean is, picture yourself in the perfect way you could & want to be. It is possible. If you see yourself in your head as that person, then it's possible. Whether that ranges from exactly how you are already, to just a few tweaks here & there, to completely changing everything about you.

The overall message is that most men degrade themselves subliminally when they meet a woman they think is higher value. Whereas if you think of yourself as the higher (or equal value) person of the conversation, the interaction would go alot smoother & easier to handle because you can spend less time worrying about what she thinks.

Watch any film or listen to any conversation with an 'alpha male' in it & you can see how considering yourself high value changes conversations dramatically.

In all fairness, since joining the community I've noticed myself adopting a good attitude towards, not just game, but positivity, family values, friendships..

I've set goals for myself I never would of set 7-8 months ago. I push & PUSH for better results in every aspect of my life including my job. I make time for people & because of that they do the same.

With that sort of attitude, it would be very hard for someone to lose things like that in their life.

Call it Karma if you want, but Karma is someone relying on fate when really it's only you that set's the course of where your life will head towards.

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MODE ONE BABY!

A tad off the community scene, but still as relevant...

..Jude Law, to explain what attributes and characteristics he had to adopt to play 'Alfie'..

Would be insightful !

Guys



I don't think a receeding hairline is an issue at all..

& if you think it is, Talk to Jude!

Did you get fishy fingers during or post date? lol x

I just choked on my coffee..