« on: November 29, 2011, 10:24:28 AM »
Ive come to realise one of the most powerful mindsets to have to succeed in not just game but in life is the conscious ability to be able to monitor and choose your thoughts in order to find that thought that feels better.
What i mean is that we all have events and circumstances in our lives which make us have negative thoughts..
Example: 'Im not good enough for this job' or 'Ill never be able to do that' or 'She's far to hot for me'.
This can go further as well in that you can get caught up in a mindset where you seem to focus on all the things you DONT WANT in life and neglect to think about what you DO want.
What im saying is that after some practice i am now able to recognise as soon as i start thinking negatively about anything then i just STOP thinking whatever the negative thought was that i was thinking. This does take some practice but when you are able to always reach for a different thought that FEELS better you will find this will have a profound effect on your whole life.
You will begin to realise that you are in control of your emotional state and that you as a conscious creator of your life can choose the emotional feelings that you can have.
When your approach a girl, you want to be able to feel as good as possible. If you've been thinking negative thoughts previously then this will be picked up by girls.
I am always able to take a thought and turn it into a better feeling thought. Lets take someone that hates their job for example:
Negative thinking might be: I really hate my job, it really gets me down, its so boring.
You can then change this thought pattern into something positive....
I appreciate that at least i have a job,
Im lucky i have money coming in,
My income pays the rent,
I wont be here forever,
Im hoping you get the idea in understanding that the BETTER you feel all the time by not allowing negative thoughts linger in your mind then the more it will help your interaction's with Women and also everyone you interact with in your life.
You will experience more joy in your life and your well-being will impove.
I hope this simple but yet often overlooked realisation will help you as much as its helped me.