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The Sofa / Re: Filming approaches
« on: May 12, 2013, 12:54:15 AM »

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I've ran into girls like that as well. There are girls out there that think being approached by a stranger is just wrong and there are girl who are just mean and bitchy and hate guys in general. none the less you run into those girls so little that it is fun to just laugh it off at how negative her view point on the world must be..

thats really, nothing more to discuss. I think this thread says more about OP than the women he approached. He sounds like a angry man. If you going to approach lots of women, this will happen from time to time, no big deal.

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The Sofa / Re: daygame:the worst way to meet women?
« on: May 09, 2013, 12:34:08 AM »
ok guys, I have no problem with motivation. I go out and do daygame few times a week alone and have been doing it for while. 99% of the phone numbers I get are flakes. Many of you will respond with "you must be doing something fundamentally wrong" I don't know what it is that I'm doing wrong to be honest. I'm paranoid that it might all just boils down to the fact that I'm a minority. Sounds sad but I'm not going to ignore that possibility. If this is true then i have no other options but to quite game because it is just an uphill struggle.

All the PUA advice out there are ignoring one important factor which can override other factors which is looks/race. PUA companies wants you to believe that with great game you can get super attarctive women regardless if your looks, money or status.

Do you ever wonder why majority of Yad/Tom/John/Nick Krusser's lays come from FROBs? (fresh off the boat) and why not many hot English girls? If you ask that, their response would be "because it is in London so majority of the women will be foriegn" WRONG... surely they can go outside London and do daygame? No, they keep going to Eastern Europe and USA.

In the end of the day, you're a stranger. True high quality women will not want to meet their future partners that way. I don't mind if it a numbers game and it is basically a cold calling, what people need to realise is this:

If you're ugly or with a physical defect, you going to approach FUCK loads before you hit a girl that might be interested. Thats fucking tons of time/energy/emtion invested.

If you're a minority living outside London, you will aprroach much more comapre to a white British native.

There must be a alternative solution.

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I guess the problem with this is engineering a lifestyle in which all this is possible and fits around your work/study schedule. I certainly want to do my best to create a lifestyle in which I'll be able to meet women through as many ways as possible. Another advantage of this would surely be that spending lots of time around women in different situations would "rub off" on your personality and make you more attractive to women in general.

we all have bills to pay, jobs to do and other commitments. Nobody is going to spend ALL their free time doing this (cold approaching, doing things to get more women), that is just fucking sad. Best to organise something social and invit as many people as possible. This is what I mean, why ain't we all spending more time exploring alternative solutions?





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The Sofa / Re: daygame:the worst way to meet women?
« on: May 05, 2013, 09:00:44 PM »
this is great, I was hoping someone to tell me that I'm wrong and full of shit.

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If you look at it in a statistical way then your hopes will be crashed as the odds aren't in your favor. If you look at it in an adventurous way with every approach being something new and entertaining and fun then the world of pickup as you view it will change.

I don't disagree with you but Seriously, apart from cold approaching and internet dating, there must be better ways to meet women. what people need to realise is that the majority will have to approach 1000s to get any where decent. People have jobs and other commitments and not everyone can do what Yad did. He was on benefit for 2 years and was doing day in and day out 8+ hour sessions.

Many will take years because they only go out 2-3 times a week and only approach a few before they go home. Girls will make a snap shoot judgement of you and won't have time to appreciate your other qualities.

I think Andy pretty much sumed up what daygame.con is about when he said "we love what we do, we spent so much time doing and we're trying to make a living from it". It is more to with the fact that they're trying to make a living from it because after all the time and effort they have invested. There is no one size for all, daygame is one of the worst ways to meet women. Think about the number of women you have to approach and the flakes. All the hussle and time wasted, what could you have done with it instead?


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The Sofa / daygame:the worst way to meet women?
« on: May 04, 2013, 12:04:17 AM »
The odds are against you. They don't know you, they're not invested in you, bad logistics and their decision tend to be made based on a snap shot of you. If you don't have good looks, body language, conversation skills then your chances are sooo slim.

I know a guy who got 8 lays from daygame after 3000+ approaches.

I think life would be better for most of us if we focus more on social circles. This is sales, unless you're good at it or have a talent for it, majority can waste years doing this

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The Sofa / Re: Don't settle!
« on: April 12, 2013, 11:34:44 PM »
Great article, although I might argue by saying: 'well to get the 9 or 10 you need experience with the 5 first'

But I don't think so, because what I have found recently is that, less attractive girls are more likely to give you hard time, because they are not confident in themselves, so when you don't succeed with a less attractive girl, your mind will go: 'If I couldn't score the 5 then forget about the 9 or 10!'

As one saying goes in the marketing and sales world:

'Don't waste time on poor prospects, they sabotage your success and attitudes'

I agree fully.

My flate mate is a nice girl but lack in self confidence and it sucks. I might get laid but certainly don't want her as my girl friend.

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The Sofa / Re: She cancelled 1st date twice
« on: April 12, 2013, 08:58:27 AM »
she's trouble mate, I number closed a girl like that few month ago, pain in the ass. They just keep letting you rearranging but never turn up. She's was probably into you in the moment, but keep letting other things get in the way is disrespectful to you. Have some respect for yourself

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The Sofa / Re: Ways to combat tiredness?!
« on: March 01, 2013, 11:17:52 PM »
turn down some invitations and go to bed early every night consistently.

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The Sofa / Re: Open with are you single?
« on: February 24, 2013, 08:55:35 PM »
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Many of the girls thats are hooked often later on tells me they have a boyfriend when I ask them about it.

Why are you asking them about their boyfriend even later on?  Don't ask about her relationship status at all.  She'll bring it up pretty quickly if it is a show-stopper.

It seems you are showing a lot of outcome-dependency here.  By asking her if she is single first, you're inferring that you don't want to even give her a compliment her unless you are guaranteed a positive reaction.  I think you should have the completely opposite mentality.  Compliment her because you genuinely thought something about her was attractive, not because you'll "get" anything out of it.  Just persevere and keep talking after that and the rest will sort itself out if it was meant to be.  Besides, married/otherwise-attached girls more often have their guards down and will be more flattered ... will up your state for your next approach.

thanks for your comments, you're right, I am outcome dependent person and I don't want to waste my time with someone who's in a relationship. I had a recent epiphany about this. When a girl says she's got a boyfriend, it can mean variety of things. e.g. FB, only started seeing each other, or in a declining relationship. I think by focusing on talking to her and building connections will certainly improve your chances. what should I do though? add her onto FB? any of you ever managed to get a girl out onto a date as friends while she's in a relationship? My view is that shes ready to get out/cheat the relationship because she's not happy if she agree to come out with you.

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it basically makes the girl make a decision right then and there if she would be interested in you without even knowing you. plus the easiest rejection a girl gives out is that "she has a boyfriend" so it would be so easy for a girl to reject you by asking if she does.

I agree with you mostly on that but it doesn't have to be that way. Imagine this, a girl is walking down and you approach her with "are you single?" I think she will be confused because she doesn't know why you're asking her and what you want. So I think what will most likely to happen is that she will go "err.....no why?" then you can deliver your opener. Not every girl will assume you're hitting on her. I will give a try and let you all know what happens. In some ways it can be effective because she don't get much time to think or make her mind up about YOU because she doesn't know what you want in the first place.

Overall, I think its a double edged sword. Girls in relationships will stop and listen to you because they want some attention. Out of all the ones that does that, I think some of them do it because they are not happy with their boyfriend. You might increase your chances but you can also waste lot of time. I sometimes do wonder what is better way to go about it, spend more time on each girls you approach or approach even more.

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The Sofa / Open with are you single?
« on: February 21, 2013, 11:15:33 PM »
I want to be direct as much as possible but I think compliement openers can be vague sometimes. Many of the girls thats are hooked often later on tells me they have a boyfriend when I ask them about it. Is that a good idea?

what is your experience? Maybe its just me but going "direct" don't seem to filter them out for some reason.

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they dont have BFs lol

being DIRECT screens the BF thing, if she says she has one later in the interaction shes probably not tht into you.

Next girl

i dont really do instadates for the same reason:
10 min set, # close, txt ping 10 mins later... fastest way to see if shes a flake IMO

have to agree with that. It sounds bizzare to me that they went on an instant date with you but later on tell you they have a BF? I'm sure they can just ignore you? It doesn't add up. Anyways, well done for getting them onto a instant date.

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I agree, if your intent is clear, they probably just not into you or you come of as needy having to ping 3 times to get a response.

You know what, I think we all need to remind ourselves of the cold hard truth about this community. Guys don't have much attractive qualities about them. They get into game thinking it will improve their chances or give them an edge, wrong. Going out game and doing cold approaches will only improve few aspect of your qualities such as conversation skills, body language, calibration etc, not necessarily confidence. Other aspects such as status, fashion&appearance, health and fitness, career, ambition and social circle will dramatically improve your chances but not just through game. Doing daygame and cold approach is not enough. Thats my view

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The Sofa / Re: how to reduce flakes
« on: February 06, 2013, 11:02:12 PM »
thanks for the feedback guys, I find it quite helpful.

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-Not enough attraction and all rapport. (Bland)

Its probably that I think. At same time, I'm not sure how to make it more interesting so I think I need more practise. Please let me know if there are any information on that. I do feel that the conversation was bit bland but at same time, i don't think it was worse/better than some your videos posted on youtube.

Toward the end of the interaction she offered her number to me and it was a good conversation in my eyes. Something was obviously missing but if I had bit more time, I would've asked her for an instant date. She told me that she's meeting up with her friend in 10mins and thats why I didn't bother. Maybe I should just ignore that. 

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to expand you might wanna open with a non-needy ping text, something related to her or the both of you.

eg:
"the best place for 'X' in town is 'Y' (silly non serious place)"
"i like 'X', you like 'Y'... our Z is gonna be 'A' "
"good luck with 'X' (silly thing)"

but thats only if shes on the fence. like john said, if ur interaction is solid so will the number

Thanks for the tips, I never thought few words can make a such difference. The question is, how do you define a solid interraction is? are there any criterias for it? I always ask where they are from to get some ideas about them. I going to watch some of the Yad's videos to get some ideas 



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The Sofa / Re: is the Yadshow working?
« on: February 04, 2013, 11:15:11 PM »
ok, I can access the website now but still cant login. Anyone can login here?

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The Sofa / how to reduce flakes
« on: February 04, 2013, 11:02:28 PM »
Number closed a girl few days ago, messaged her today "Hi XX hope you had a nice weekend, it was nice to meet you at xxx, you reminded me of Poison Ivy from batman, lol. When are you free to meet up this week?"

No replies so far so I'm assuming she will flake. I might try and call her but I'm bit fed up with all the flakes I been getting. Not sure what I'm doing wrong.

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