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I've ran into girls like that as well. There are girls out there that think being approached by a stranger is just wrong and there are girl who are just mean and bitchy and hate guys in general. none the less you run into those girls so little that it is fun to just laugh it off at how negative her view point on the world must be..
I guess the problem with this is engineering a lifestyle in which all this is possible and fits around your work/study schedule. I certainly want to do my best to create a lifestyle in which I'll be able to meet women through as many ways as possible. Another advantage of this would surely be that spending lots of time around women in different situations would "rub off" on your personality and make you more attractive to women in general.
If you look at it in a statistical way then your hopes will be crashed as the odds aren't in your favor. If you look at it in an adventurous way with every approach being something new and entertaining and fun then the world of pickup as you view it will change.
Great article, although I might argue by saying: 'well to get the 9 or 10 you need experience with the 5 first'
But I don't think so, because what I have found recently is that, less attractive girls are more likely to give you hard time, because they are not confident in themselves, so when you don't succeed with a less attractive girl, your mind will go: 'If I couldn't score the 5 then forget about the 9 or 10!'
As one saying goes in the marketing and sales world:
'Don't waste time on poor prospects, they sabotage your success and attitudes'
QuoteMany of the girls thats are hooked often later on tells me they have a boyfriend when I ask them about it.
Why are you asking them about their boyfriend even later on? Don't ask about her relationship status at all. She'll bring it up pretty quickly if it is a show-stopper.
It seems you are showing a lot of outcome-dependency here. By asking her if she is single first, you're inferring that you don't want to even give her a compliment her unless you are guaranteed a positive reaction. I think you should have the completely opposite mentality. Compliment her because you genuinely thought something about her was attractive, not because you'll "get" anything out of it. Just persevere and keep talking after that and the rest will sort itself out if it was meant to be. Besides, married/otherwise-attached girls more often have their guards down and will be more flattered ... will up your state for your next approach.
it basically makes the girl make a decision right then and there if she would be interested in you without even knowing you. plus the easiest rejection a girl gives out is that "she has a boyfriend" so it would be so easy for a girl to reject you by asking if she does.
they dont have BFs lol
being DIRECT screens the BF thing, if she says she has one later in the interaction shes probably not tht into you.
i dont really do instadates for the same reason:
10 min set, # close, txt ping 10 mins later... fastest way to see if shes a flake IMO
I agree, if your intent is clear, they probably just not into you or you come of as needy having to ping 3 times to get a response.
-Not enough attraction and all rapport. (Bland)
to expand you might wanna open with a non-needy ping text, something related to her or the both of you.
"the best place for 'X' in town is 'Y' (silly non serious place)"
"i like 'X', you like 'Y'... our Z is gonna be 'A' "
"good luck with 'X' (silly thing)"
but thats only if shes on the fence. like john said, if ur interaction is solid so will the number