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The Sofa / Goodbye...
« on: January 15, 2012, 09:13:57 PM »
Okay, guys, I'm done on here.

(and like that...whoosh, he's gone).

Actions & Techniques (Outer Game) / Re: What to say after opening?
« on: January 14, 2012, 09:35:52 AM »
Yeah, you can more or less say anything, as long as you approach the girl in the right way.

It is a numbers game, and you are looking for a girl who you feel you have genuine chemistry with.


As Stephen said: going for a cold-read is good - "I like your style, I bet you do something creative."

Also, you can try:

"So, who are you?" and when she shakes your hand, pull her in and say: "Oh, Laura (or whatever), I love you!"

"Oh, my god, you're so huggable."

"I'm not even listening to what you're saying, I can't take my eyes off your lips, eyes, etc. they're so bewitching"

"So, tell me about yourself - give me the flash-bangs."

Remember: keep your eyes fixed on her eyes. That will help you to get turned on by her and, as we know...altogether now..."What you feels, she feels."

Speak slowly too, but with commanding tonality in your words.


The Sofa / Re: Me on a Dating Show in (2002) - Noooo Game!
« on: January 13, 2012, 09:02:41 PM »
It's all part of the journey, man. We've all been there.

Mad props for posting this up.

Sex. Pure and simple.

I am already enough. I don't need anything from any woman to complete me. I don't need any validation from a woman to tell me how cool or awesome I am. I already know that.

I don't need any woman to complete me, to fill a void or to make me happy.

My happiness comes from within and not without.

That soft, pink, warm hole between her legs is the only thing I want from a woman. Anything else, I could not give a toss about.

An awesome and thought-provoking thread, my friend - one of the best I've read on here.

In MY experience: truth.

The Sofa / Re: Daygame results - the numbers of the numbers game
« on: January 11, 2012, 07:56:45 AM »

Amen, brother.

Did you look up those links that I gave you? These guys are the bomb, and to them, online game is like shooting fish in a barrel.

Actions & Techniques (Outer Game) / Re: Doing Less better?
« on: January 10, 2012, 11:01:50 PM »
You will only get "drained" if you are approaching girls and you have outcome dependence - i.e. deep down, you're hoping for a particular end result. Yes, of course, you WANT to fuck the girl. However, you don't NEED to fuck the girl.

If you're getting pissy when "things don't go your way", you're totally in the wrong headspace, man. A bad place to be. You're outcome dependent, you're coming from a place of scarcity, and you're coming across as a needy, insecure little bitch (no offense - we've all been there at the beginning).

I say:

1) Approach more. Even when your body is aching and your brain is screaming that it wants to go home, keep approaching - one more, then one more, then one more. Keep hammering it out. That's how you'll get good. I'm 47, and I was out for six hours today.

2) Don't try.

3) Don't look to impress - you are already enough.

4) Do not look to qualify yourself to the girl.

5) Lower the bar when it comes to the quality of conversation you think you should be having with the girl. You don't have to be Russell Brand, crossed with Stephen Fry, crossed with Stephen Hawking.

The Sofa / Re: Daygame results - the numbers of the numbers game
« on: January 10, 2012, 10:46:10 PM »
As a wise man once told me:

1) Fuck.

2) Get to know.

The Sofa / Re: Summarise pickup in 1 sentence
« on: January 10, 2012, 10:38:37 PM »
Be A Fucking Man.

The Sofa / Re: my daygame resolution - one you should all consider
« on: January 09, 2012, 10:55:10 PM »
Okay-dokey, I will follow your progress with a jeweler's eyepiece :)

No, I won't stop posting, as long as people don't get sick of the motormouth rantings of a self-confessed braggadoccio with a Rooney Mara obsession.

The Sofa / Re: my daygame resolution - one you should all consider
« on: January 09, 2012, 09:56:20 PM »
I'm in. However, let's go for THREE approaches a day.

I've resolved to stop posting on the Main Forum, and just to concentrate in updating and posting up my own infield reports and on others I may be able to help.

The Sofa / Re: Daygame results - the numbers of the numbers game
« on: January 09, 2012, 09:51:29 PM »
Getting a telephone number is the most pointless thing you can do...seriously.

I'd rather just ask a girl if she wants to go home with me and get rejected, than go skipping down the street, waving her digits in my hand, thinking I've got something tangible.

Anybody know a guy in the community called EvilStifler? You should. Looks like a piece of crap, no job, no goals in life apart from banging as much pussy as poss. Had a six-minute-pull the other day, and in 2011 he banged a different girl from 1st January to halfway through February.

He's legendary in the pickup community.

The Sofa / Re: Your Own Personally Fuck Toy.
« on: January 06, 2012, 11:34:32 PM »
Hahahaha - I think there must be something wrong with me, boys :)

All your choices look like girls who have won the genetic lottery - Darwinism in its purest form.

However, my choice, Rooney Mara in The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo, seems the complete opposite in femininity.

There is just something about her in this film, and when she took her trousers down and jumped on top of Daniel Craig's character I literally who and where I was for a few moments, my heart started to beat, and my tongue felt like it was on fire.

It was the closest thing to dying I think I've ever experienced.

Self Perception (Inner Game) / Re: friendzone yourself!
« on: January 06, 2012, 10:46:49 PM »
Of course, my friend, with the utmost respect, I kind of see where you're coming from and, in addition, it's true that different things work for different people.

However, I've never been a big fan of this "Excuse me" and this "I don't mean to interrupt you," business. Straight away, it just gives the impression that you are apologizing for taking up your space in the world.

In addition, if you are coming from the headspace that by approaching the girl you are GIVING value and not disturbing her and TAKING value, then why would you apologize for infusing her day with ten minutes of awesomeness that she is going to be telling her friends about that evening?

Girls are bored; they live to FEEL. If you go home on a night disappointed that you haven't pulled, think of how more disappointed girls feel after they've spent their hard-earned cash on the expensive perfume, a cool haircut, the push-up bra, the designer dress, and the fuck-me-high-heeled shoes.

But I agree that if it's coming from the right mindset, and your intent is to fuck the girl and not have a twenty minute conversation like you're coming across as her new gay window-shopping chum, it doesn't matter what you say, and we are probably talking about semantics here.

Just make sure you're looking at her like you want to devour the little lamb and crush her pussy hard.

The keys to opening are: (credit BB)

* Open face-to-face, non of this over the shoulder trash

* Don't lean in

* Open with with loud BR tonality (eg: "Hey"), sets the tone that you're a confident dominant man

* Laser Eye Focus

* Use good commanding tone of voice

* Lower the bar as to how entertaining or interesting your conversation has to be.

"The power of the direct approach is so strong, literally, if you open hard, attraction is like a light switch. DONE!"

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