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Messages - John Matrix

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Self Perception (Inner Game) / Re: Keeping your mind in the game.
« on: June 18, 2013, 03:50:38 PM »
Yes I can. I had this on Oslo recently when we went there to teach a bootcamp. I wasn't feeling it and I was tired so I didn't push myself. I just relaxed a lot at the apartment.

Accept how you feel, we can't feel great all the time.  In fact I would say this is totally normal and healthy.

If you don't feel like going out and talking to women then don't go out, it's OK :)


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Watch my video as cgarza305 says.  Will help a lot.

If you're running out of things to say you're not listening properly.

Listen and don't be scared to talk bullshit. 

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The Sofa / Re: The Kamikaze Close
« on: June 18, 2013, 02:20:05 PM »
My rule is that I go for it when she is that hot/my type that I genuinely care.   There's no reason no to go for it.

"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take"

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The Sofa / Re: Balancing escalation and comfort levels
« on: June 18, 2013, 02:17:08 PM »
"Then I looked her in the eye said: "One more" and gave her a peck on the lips. She seemed to be into it at the time."

"The next day I send her a message to set up a new date. Her reply was that she didn't want to meet up again, because of the way we said good-bye. She said, that she felt taken by surprise and didn't like it."

If you genuinely did what you said then this is a huge overreaction on her part. It was just a peck on the lips, not a full on make out attempt. I don't think you did anything wrong IMO. 

There may have been something else that is not apparent from the post you've made but I would just forget about it.

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If she says it right at the beginning you can ignore it. Just don't react and carry on with whatever you were saying before she mentioned it.

If she says it at the end when I go to close then either it is true or she doesn't like me so I let her go. Next....

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The Sofa / Re: Mindset problem ?
« on: June 11, 2013, 11:51:46 PM »
"Because I imagine the girl thinking ?ok, that was nice to talk to you, but we know each other only for 2 min, the first ?natural? topic is over, now you are switching to an other subject, I start wondering when all this will end because I have other things to do?.
I always imagine here thinking this and end the conversation, because when a stranger comes talk to me, even if I find it interesting, I quickly start having the same thought."

- You are thinking too much. She is not thinking this. She is not analysing the conversation she is having with you as she is having it. Stop analysing, try and be in the moment and just talk off the top of you head as you do with your friends.
I used to analyse conversations I had with people over and over again, I thought it was normal. Once I realised that it wasn't I made an effort to stop and over time it went away.


"The problem is that sometimes, I directly start teasing the girl and she respond badly, like she feel attacked (even when I do it with a big smile), or she may even ignore my comment and continue what she was doing?."

 - You are probably not delivering it in the way you think you are. You can get away with a lot if you have a smile on your face. Maybe tone it down until you get more comfortable with it. Teasing should feel natural, like the way you tease your friends.  If it doesn't then it isn't being done right.

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The Sofa / Re: First Thread - The Yad Stop
« on: June 11, 2013, 11:44:37 PM »
" When I'm able to practice an approach my Yad stop creates a frightened body language from the lady. I am following the recipe to the letter I'm wondering if this is normal. Could it be I'm being too anxious before I make the approach? "

- SMILE :-) Without seeing you in action I would guess that you are probably not smiling. If you approach with a straight face or a slightly nervous face you will get this reaction. I see it week in week out with new students.

Women are like mirrors, if you are happy, relaxed and chilled when you approach then they will respond by being happy, relaxed and chilled. If you are jittery and nervous then they will be jittery and nervous.

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Effortless Infield / Re: To Jon: Infield Requests
« on: June 03, 2013, 11:47:00 PM »
I'm literally going out tomorrow with Martin to start filming the next batch of infield videos for effortless. I will say now that there definitely will be English girls involved ;)   Watch this space...

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Actions & Techniques (Outer Game) / Re: Typical
« on: April 23, 2013, 11:51:29 PM »
Inviting a girl over to your house as a first date after a 10 min street approach is probably not the best idea in the world.

You are filtering hard for only one type of girl when you do that. Most girls will not come straight to your house as a first date.

Come on man, take her for a drink at least first.  You can always take her home later in the evening.

Women don't like to feel like sluts.

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I'm going to do it ASAP. As soon as Martin our cameraman gets back from Brazil we're going to do it.

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Suggestions Box / Re: The seduction phase of Yad captured on camera!
« on: April 23, 2013, 02:13:48 PM »
"The Girlfriend Sequence" will cover a lot of this for sure. It's all about what happens after you have the girls number.


The problem with real footage of seduction is it cannot take place inside a private residence as you know. The real nuts and bolts of seduction and pulling the trigger would need to be done there.

We can only show you as much as we legally can and as I said "The Girlfriend Sequence" is the product you will want to see.

There will be a big launch for it when it's released so watch this space.

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Suggestions Box / Re: Podcast Idea
« on: April 23, 2013, 02:09:28 PM »
Noted. It'll be the topic of one of the next few we do. 

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The Sofa / Re: Bootcamp Reviews
« on: April 21, 2013, 12:26:21 PM »
Check out http://www.daygame.com/success-stories/ and scroll down to the Infield Bootcamp ones.

These are all 100% genuine.  Mainly from emails sent to Andy from the student after the bootcamp.

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