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I worked very closely with Tom for a number of years so I feel I should chime in here.  I had absolutely no idea that this video was faked. I am in as much shock as everyone else. In fact I remember Tom telling me at the time that he had "gotten a kiss close on film".

There is no excuse for this, as far as I was aware all of Tom's videos for were 100% legit and I take a lot of pride from the fact that what we do is real. It's not always the most exciting stuff to watch but we're showing you what solid, successful pickup actually looks like.

I have spent a lot of time with Tom and I've seen him in action. He is very capable of getting a kiss close without needing to resort to this so I don't understand why he would go to such lengths. Personally I don't believe that anything else that he has done is fake but obviously this scandal will damage his reputation. As I've said I've spent a lot of time with him and I've winged with him and he is more than capable of getting these results without having to stage anything.

As I worked closely with Tom and by association may be implicated by this I would like to say 100% categorically that no video I have ever made is staged.  All of my pickup videos, including the kiss close are real and I would never bother to stage anything because I don't need to. Acting something like that out would actually be more contrived and complicated than just doing it for real.

The Sofa / Re: Assumption Stacking
« on: February 10, 2014, 12:27:04 AM »
Under no circumstances do you want her to think you are cold reading her.  The assumptions need to be used "Under the Radar" so to speak.  Make an assumption then use the information she gives you to talk about how it relates to you.

The Sofa / Re: Can you really pick-up very beautifull girls ?
« on: February 06, 2014, 12:54:05 AM »
"Hey Jon after how many pickups do you think you become a little good at this ?"

-Everybody's number will be different. Try not to think about it like that. Focus on enjoying what you are doing rather than the result.

"Jon, are you going to tell this man that its a limiting belief to think that he can't pull 10s as well?"

.-Well if he made an effort to present himself well, maybe lost a little weight and he had the skills then there's no reason why not. I take it you don't know this guy? How do you know he's not already pulling 10's? 

"Is it possible to show us some photos of some of the 10s you guys laid? "

-Not wanting to blow my own trumpet but you asked. Go to my team profile page and look at my photos. The picture of me with the girl in the red dress with the yellow snake in the picture. She was a Swedish model, a bona fide 10. This was a picture from a night out with her in a club but I met her on the street.

The Sofa / Re: How can i remember the Push&Pull, Teasing etc. time?
« on: February 03, 2014, 12:11:54 AM »
Rather than giving you a formula for using them, which would never work, I'll give you more of a general concept in a nutshell -

Stop trying to make her like you. If you can let go of wanting or needing her to like you or it to go well then you will naturally tease and naturally challenge and use push pull.

The Sofa / Re: Can you really pick-up very beautifull girls ?
« on: February 03, 2014, 12:02:41 AM »
Absolutely you can. I have, Tom has, Andy has and Yad has.

Obviously they are rarer then most of the girls you date but thinking you can't get 9's and 10's is just a plain old limiting belief.

There is no valid reason to think that you can't get them.  9's and 10's want sex and relationships just as much as everyone else.

Lots of places, do some scouting and some research. Use your imagination :)

Guys should stop doing ox circ and the surrounding area, it's saturated with other guys doing it.

The Sofa / Re: Tricky situation - Behind Her
« on: January 28, 2014, 02:04:20 PM »
" she kind of seen/felt that I was behind the whole time and I haven't really seen her face.""

That's in your head. Most likely she doesn't know you're behind her.  I get this a lot from students. "She saw me".  She didn't see you. You are just a random guy in the street amongst loads of other random guys. She won't analyse the situation as you are doing now in hindsight.  Just go ahead and open in the normal way.

I did this for around 6 months-1 year. It wasn't every day and not 10-12hrs a day. I think that's too much. It was maybe 4 days a week and 3-4 hours a day. Maybe some days 4-8 hours.

The Sofa / Re: How do you get quiet girls to open up?
« on: January 28, 2014, 01:59:49 PM »
This is a tough one. The key is getting her comfortable enough to want to talk. The best way to do that is to stop trying to get her to open up which means stop trying to get her to do the work.

Put the emphasis on you rather than her. Take every scrap of info she gives you and run with it.  Tell her stories, anecdotes etc.  This will get her comfortable.  Use your assumptions and then listen to her answers and go into assumption stories.

In almost every daygame approach you should be doing most of the work at the beginning. More in some sets than others. 

Regardless of your approach being direct/indirect it sounds like you're skipping out the attraction phase.  Rapport on it's own won't work most of the time. Polite, friendly conversations are not memorable and do not spike sexual interest.

Add in some teasing/challenging/playfulness and you'll see how things can change.

The Sofa / Re: Conversation Question
« on: December 01, 2013, 10:05:46 AM »
In answer to the thing about mind going blank - focus on LISTENING to what she's saying rather than what you're going to say.

Regarding the saying whatever is on your mind - Come on man don't be silly. You can't say literally anything.  Regardless of how you say it that mum comment is very likely to offend.  Remove the brain filter to a degree but obviously there is a line that you shouldn't cross.

The Sofa / Re: what to talk about immediately after number close??
« on: November 10, 2013, 07:43:05 PM »
There's no one thing you can talk about, better to just say whatever comes into your head at the time or just continue the conversation you were having from before. 

If you really must have a line then, "So what have you been doing today" or "What's your plans for the rest of the day" are ok.

I would strongly advocate you DON'T use these at the beginning of an interaction, they are probably the worst things you could say but once she's hooked and you've closed then it's fine.

The Sofa / Re: Making girls laugh during interaction?
« on: November 10, 2013, 07:39:35 PM »
"From all accounts he does well though using his clown act. " - What accounts are these?

I can only echo what Rob says.

Are we trying to make girls laugh and make funny Youtube videos or are we trying to find a girlfriend or get laid?

Actions & Techniques (Outer Game) / Re: Norwegian, Swedish and Danish girls
« on: November 04, 2013, 09:43:31 AM »
Daygame works really well in Scandinavia. I've done it there.  Scandinavian men don't do it.

Bear in mind it's a hook up culture not a dating culture. Be prepared for bounce backs and sex on the first date.

The Sofa / Re: Logistics of Front Stop
« on: November 04, 2013, 09:40:53 AM »
Make eye contact if you can then always let her walk past then run back after her.

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