Silence is a powerful thing.
Most of the people in pick up are wondering this:
'Shit, what do I say to a beautiful woman!?'
Here's an idea. Don't say anything... That may seem counter intuitive but here's the deal.
Whilst there's a silence there's one thing going through your head.
'Oh God.. A Silence. She's going to think we have nothing to talk about. I'm not connecting with her. Ahhh fuck.. Ermmm I must fill it. What can I say...? What should I say!?... '
How much emotional investment is that!? - You have just mentally exhausted yourself on this girl.
So why don't we flip the script!
Be silent. Stay silent.
Chances are she's thinking the same thing.
She'll be worried about that silence too, she might be waiting for you to fill it, or she might be panicking and searching manickly in her mind for something to say.
Let her do the emotional investing. We all know the more she is invested, the more she is attracted!
Why don't you just concentrate on something else whilst there's a silence. Enjoy the scenery.
'Wow, that tree over there is nice...'
'My god, she really is sexy...'
'Hey, I can feel the breeze on my face.. ha, that's nice.'
Whilst she's thinking.
'Fuck... I have to say something. He's not speaking. Is he interested in me!? Omg. He's going to think we have nothing to say. Ermmm. Errm.. .... ' --- 'So how is your.. Err... Work going?'
There's nothing wrong with silence.
Enjoying it shows you're relaxed, comfortable and high value.