yea just cant ever really seem to get anything going after i meet them.
everything seems to usually go well during the 1st interaction but im having trouble figuring out the next part
from the time i meet them, i usually text them alittle later that day, maybe again the day after the next day then maybe another 2 days later tell them im going to go to the driving range or having a cook out and tell them to tag along or stop by for a little bit if they want. but they always say they may but never do
what I use to do was make the plans before i take the number(I say use to because im changing things up a bit)....of course assuming these are from direct street/cold approaches...also if it was indirect, then it has to be clear by that time, that you are attracted to her and that she likes you back..you have to feel that the connection is there or its a 99% chance of flake
also...no tag alongs (if your intention is to sleep with them/ date them) there has to be some kind of sexual tension there (you dont have to talk about sex, this could be done by being close and keeping eye contact ) bro some girls will give you their phone numbers just to be polite, I've been there... I've been in the very same spot you've been...if she doesnt come out to see you, she doesnt "like" you enough...http://krauserpua.com/day-game-model/
(I hope I dont get in trouble for posting this)
this is the dude formt he last podcast daygame model, this is a very good example temple of what needs (more or less) for a solid number, or atleast a number with more chances of a date...... notice how he talks about investing..the more she invest the more she's showing she "likes" you