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Offline Prinked

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« on: August 25, 2011, 05:41:08 PM »
Ok guys, after daygaming the other day I came up with a list of sticking points I encountered throughout the day, what I think I did well, and things I need to find out and one of those things I need to find out is how to approach groups during the daytime, now on daygame I know they talk a lot about approaching a girl all by herself, but often I see a lot of cute girls in groups, so how exactly do I go about approaching them?

I feel as though I would approach them if I just had the knowledge of how to do it?



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« Reply #1 on: August 25, 2011, 07:04:17 PM »
Alright mate.

At first it can be a lot more scary approaching a group but it can also be a lot more beneficial.

I will still go direct but I will say something along the lines- "Hi, i know this is random and i dont want to embarrass anyone but (pause) i was walking past and i have to say that your'e friend here looks absoloutly stunning today" (in front of everyone). I will include "and i dont want to embarrass anyone" because it shows social intelligence as you understand you are doing this in front of all her friends.

Most of the time the friends are just as friendly or even friendlier than the target as it is entertaining and even exciting for them to watch this.

Include the friend in the convo as much as the girl your'e after as not to exclude her. This can be so beneficial as switching between your'e target and her friend results in a lot more conversational threads/topics to go down which is great if you sometimes run out of things to say when you are talking to one girl on her own.

It really does help approaching groups as sometimes the girl you go direct on goes shy but her friend is really chatty so you can talk to her friend a bit more until your'e target gets more comftorable with the situation. I have even had the girls friends say stuff like "you can take her away for two minutes if you want" which is awesome as having her friends acceptance of you and you're approach is really important.

Hope this helps. :)

p.s. After you have approached groups of girls the next step is mother and daughters ;) Now thats a rush.

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« Reply #2 on: August 25, 2011, 08:46:34 PM »
Hey Rob! Thank you so much for the information, and that actually sounds so simple! (but I'm sure that I'll screw up a good few times before I nail it!) Yeah I often find approaching one girl by herself intimidating, especially if I think she's absolutely gorgeous, so approaching a group is most definitely going to be a challenge, I can almost feel the anxiety building up in me just thinking about it!

Still, I personally feel that undertaking the things you're scared most of yield the greatest rewards, so perhaps this will be what I need to blow my game open, and dust out a couple of limiting beliefs.

I aim to go out tomorrow and test this so I'll let you know the results! :D
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« Reply #3 on: August 25, 2011, 09:21:08 PM »
Awesome mate, yeah post back on this thread to let us know how it goes.

It is important in this that when you hit a plateau e.g. being able to comfortably approach a girl by herself, you then have to push yourself to the next level as thats how you improve.

The first time you do anything will be scary but slowly overtime you will feel more comfortble doing it and thats when you set yourself new challenges :)
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« Reply #4 on: September 03, 2011, 11:29:35 PM »
Mate, i'm not gonna lie, these past few weeks i've been such a pussy, i've been barely going out and i've had SO many opportunities to open, but i just let the moment pass me by, it's so frustrating! I hate letting moments pass me by. :(
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« Reply #5 on: September 04, 2011, 09:15:49 AM »
Quote from: Prinked on September 03, 2011, 11:29:35 PM
Mate, i'm not gonna lie, these past few weeks i've been such a pussy, i've been barely going out and i've had SO many opportunities to open, but i just let the moment pass me by, it's so frustrating! I hate letting moments pass me by. :(

ah man definitely been there, you can use that as fuel for later by remembering exactly how you feel letting  that girl walk away. anytime you do that, remember the girl, the scene, what you said to your friend or to yourself. then NEXT time you feel like copping out remember how hot the last girl was and how you  said the exact same thing as she walked away, then ask if your going to let EVERY attractive girl walk away with some bs excuse

 and if you really want  to meet a girl, that will be the point you say....yea im going
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