How does one get the same success if not more success then goodlooking guys like Ollie Pearce(who has been on a podcast and works for PUA training as well as being a model)?
First of all, i don't mean too much disrespect if any, it's just i'm using him as a example as he is the only model i have met before.
A few years ago i did a one on one shopping trip with him in London. But the thing is though, he often picks out the same clothes for alot of his clients. I went to a one day event shortly after and lots of guys were wearing the same clothes.
We spent alot of time in Topman and he got me buying checked shirts and dark jeans etc. That was all very well, but i could have just gone in the store anyway and bought them without paying him ?60 a hour. I ended up getting items that were too small for me and a waistcoat that was damaged. it was the only one left and he recomended that i should get it. Why? Damaged.
I have actually had negative comments from both guys and girls about some of the clothes i got with him. "That don't suit you" comments etc.
Also he seemed to make the time drag so that he would earn more money(toilet breaks,phone calls etc). The very fact it looked like we were going to go over the time(which was 5 hours), made him say about being payed more money, even though it was only going to be around 10 minutes.
Also we got some things from one end of the street and walked to the other end later, but after a while he said about going to a certain store to get something else. But that store was at the other end of the street more or less where we were before. We could have gone in there the first time round. Again just to waste time. He also had some tacky wristbands and wanted ?30 for them.
I have also heard the same thing from some other guys.
I suggest not having a one on one with him and to go shopping with some female friends instead. This is obviously just my opinion and based on my time with him. He could have just been having a bad day. From reading over posts some guys have given him good feedback which is fair enough. Im just being honest and as i said , i don't mean any disrespect to anyone. It's just everyone has the right to free speech.
Speaking of money, because he is a model and works for pua training, i bet he earns heaps a month. Wouldn't surprise me if he gets ?30,000 plus a month. And 98% just because he is goodlooking. I wouldn't mind being a model myself as well as a few friends of mine. One of which has tryed lots of times to get work, but gets turned away and sometimes even laughed at because he is simlpy not genetically goodlooking enough.
I bet i do more work then he does and i get less then ?1,000 a month.
Ok so this guy is really goodlooking with a good body. And he is a natural.
I think it will be really hard for guys who aren't naturals just to get up to his level of skill, if not impossible. That goes for any other natural as well. The very fact he is a model obviously means he gets to meet alot of female mdoels and has a social circle based around that. Now this is just getting up to his level of game, let alone the fact he is miles better looking then me. I just don't think a not goodlooking guy who is not a natural will ever even match his success with girls, let alone have more. Also if a guy like me isn't a natural, then thats not my fault. But it seems unfair that i have to pay money for training etc when naturals don't have to. So ollie for example not only saves tons of money because he dosen't need training, but he earns a hell of a lot more money then most in the first place.. And he gets loads of girls and i don't. So there is a very good rerason why he is likely to be very happy at the moment and im not.
When i did my one on one with him i asked him if he had a girlfriend. At the time i had had one my entire life. I obviously expected him to say yes. He said he was dating around 7 girls and they were all hot. In fact at any one time it wouldn't surprise me he he dates around 7 girls. and i bet the main reason is his looks. Even hayley dates him and told me she thinks he's hot and said it in a very excited way( as if that was one of the main reasons she likes him). In fact i had to resort to do training and i trained with hayley. Of course being my trainer, nothing would had happened between us. Point is though, i had to pay for her company, ollie dosent and ollie gets layed and i don't. In fact i end up getting ignored and then blocked. I bet ollie isn't blocked and i bet they are still dating..
At the time,kezia was still working for pua training and we talked about her for a while. He told me that she fancied him. So it wouldn't surprise me if he's had success with kezia as well.
i have bipolar and i can't help but be jealous of it. I have never layed anywhere near as hot a girl as her.
Anyway Ollie was bragging his arse off about his success with women and confirmed that he gets alot of girls into him because of his looks. I of course told him my success and thats when the bragging started, In a subtle way, but bragging never the less.
Its always guys like him who get the girls just because he's goodlooking and over confident. I should have 20 girls on the go at any one time because i'm just as good as him and so are alot of other guys. It's just alot of girls are shallow.
As for getting fit and having a good body, i have man boobs which im trying to get rid of. It is hard and takes ages for me to loose weight. At the moment i have a shoulder problem which don't help me do chest excersises etc.
Ok back to the subject of paying for training. Andy started out working for PUA training on the computer side of things right. Because he was working for the company he got to sit in on bootcamps for free. I did a bootcamp back in november 2008 and thats when i first met Andy. He had quite bad aa at the time. A guy called richard was training us on some daygme.
Ok not long after he got tons of one on one training by adam lyons etc, all likely for free. And thats why he has great game now. How do i get to his level without lots of one on one training? I'm not paying thousands, afterall he got training for free. And of course with this site, he still gets a hugh advantage over most guys, what with the guests coming in to do the podcasts. I bet they don't just come in, record it and then leave. No they prob stay over and chat or go out for a meal and get lots of info which helps his and yads game ,and which is more underground material then us listeners get to hear.
They could ask all sorts of people like kezia questions etc, which if the likes of us wanted to, we would have to pay ?100 plus a hour.
Now i mean no disrespect here, all im saying is, how do we get as good game if not better when these guys are getting access to more information etc.
I want to know what the main good thing yad does to get layed. There must be one or two stand out things he does etc. I would just like to know that and not pay ?800 on a bootcamp.
Did yad just approach and figure it all out himself or did he get training as well?
I mentioned i did a PUA training bootcamp, but it wasn't very good.
I have bipolar which dosen;'t help with all this, so sorry for the rant