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Author Topic: So I did the direct approach.  (Read 911 times)

Offline Lummers

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So I did the direct approach.
« on: June 30, 2011, 06:15:25 PM »
I like it.
The beauty of it is that you do not have to think of what the hell you are going to say while your walking up to the girl. You can think to yourself about more important stuff, like breath slow, speak clearly etc.

During the pre-frame I didn't even know what my opener was going to be.
It turned out as:
'I just wanted to meet you... because... you have this really cute yellow cardigan on and your really pretty.'
Which is 100% what I thought. And I got such a positive response.
I guess because I was being authentic it came of as such.
She smiled and asked.
'Why did you think that?'
'This cardigan is adorable, and I've now noticed your ear rings match your t-shirt, and that must've been planned.'
'No, I just chucked it on.'
'Don't tell lies! Come on, you definately planned it. I can see you infront of the mirror in the morning, with all your ear-rings lined up, going hmmm...which ones, which ones.'
'Haha, yeah, a little like that. - I've actually got to get going, I'm meeting my mum.'
*She said side stepping around me.*
'Oh, that's fine. Nice meeting you.'
'Yeah, thanks :)'
*She smiles over her shoulder and walks away*

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I should've carried on the conversation, but I didn't really know how tbh...
I was like... 'Wait, err... I have more to say!!!' - But just let her get away. And tbh, I'm not even sure I did have more to say....

I hit on a 14 yr old. She was hot (Bloody Jail bait!) ... I said 'Yeah, theres a bit of an age gap here, so I'll leave you to your day.'

Then a 16 year old. Who had a really ugly friend standing next to her who looked really pissed off with me. But I'm like, your friends cute.
On the bright side, I did use an assumption here to carry on the conversation.
'So...I guess, your out shopping... probably went to H and M for some beach clothes....'
But she didn't have any bags on her. And it was a shocking assumption. I guess if I keep doing it I'll get better....

And that's it. I hit on the 14 yr old first. Then the 16 yr old. Then the girl who definately was around my age, but she walked away.

Seems there was no one else in town today, well it was very busy. But after being a bit of a peadophile I realised most girls were WAY too young, and no one my age was around... Unless they were pushing prams, or smoking. And I don't like Mothers or smokers...

So thanks for telling me to go direct guys! Feel good about it.
So much more positivity aswell, and I love just saying what I felt in the moment. :)

What next?

And also, where the hell do all the twenty year olds hang around at day time!?!?!?!?!?!?


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Re: So I did the direct approach.
« Reply #1 on: July 01, 2011, 09:10:53 AM »
Good job mate! Its nice to see someone taking advice on-board then putting it into practice straight away ;)

It really is such a rush to tell her whatever is on you're mind in the moment and it really is effective as she can tell you really are being authentic.

All you have to do next is transition into a normal conversation- a good way is what you did as make an assumption of what they are upto today.
When it came to the girl that was going well, when she said she had to go to meet her mum it is a good idea to still be persistant and tell her you only want another two minutes and really try and push it a bit more. You could even say something as basic as guesing she is a student and finding out what she does.

Lol, i know what you mean about the young girls though, there seems to be loads about at the moment- its pissing me off haha.

Good job. Direct baby :D

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Re: So I did the direct approach.
« Reply #2 on: July 02, 2011, 12:08:39 AM »

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Re: So I did the direct approach.
« Reply #3 on: July 08, 2011, 04:09:29 PM »
Holy crackers I laughed so hard at that picture.

Dude 14 year olds are 1) illegal and 2) easy because they have no idea about life just yet.

Also "'Yeah, thanks :)'
*She smiles over her shoulder and walks away*" Mate don't let them get away! but high 14 (Too soon?) on the direct opener. We should all do that often until it becomes easy...not the girls, the opener.