?You go up to your dream girl! You tell her ?Excuse me, but you looked so cute, I had to come and say Hi!?.
A stranger passing by, over hear?s this and yells ?Hey, everyone, check out the geek who thinks this stunning babe would go out with him!?!! Ha Ha Ha!!!!
Soon a large crowd of strangers gather and begin laughing at you! The girl, angry that a loser like you would even think of talking to her, joins in the mocking.
As you slowly slink away back to your dank cave, the terrible reality hits you; OMG I will be seeing these people every day!!! Better just kill myself and give myself some peace............?
This is what goes through all our heads when we see a beautiful girl in a crowded area. The reality is, however, a lot different. Firstly, as Tony has mentioned, most people (unless you are opening a girl in a packed library) are too busy going about their own business to care. Secondly it?s human nature to think that if one person starts talking to another, then they know each other, so they generally just tune out.
Your target, is probably so surprised that a stranger would compliment her that any social awkwardness would be forgotten, and so she should (hopefully
)enjoy being chatted to by you!
Next time you see a girl you like in a busy area, try and immediately put in your mind, all the great things that your interaction with that girl could result in and then GO OPEN HER!!