text game. can anyone help?

[totheark]

so ive been texting this girl, and i think i asked to meet up and hangout way too soon. so with that being said i was just wondering how often is to often to text a girl? like how often should you text her? my end goal is pretty much a date, or atleast a hangout to see her again

[jules]

Hey man,

Here's a good rule: if it takes her, let's say, 1 hour to answer your text, wait at least the same time before replying yourself. Even better if you wait a little longer than her. Or you can sometimes answer after 10 minutes and other times after several hours or maybe wait till the next day. The end result is to show her that you've got other stuff going on in your life and she isn't the number 1 priority, but rather you could take it or leave it.
You know those times when you get a text from someone you don't really care about too much? And you close it and then answer a long while later? That's kind of the mindset you can adopt when texting the girl you like.

Here's a great article about texting: http://www.bristollair.com/2008/outer-game/pua-techniques/ultimate-guide-to-text-game/

Good luck!

[kwame]

dude just be unpredictable about it don't think too much about just go on doing what you are doing on text when you are done, don't stop what you are already doin tho answer the text this way its more natural and not planned because even if you do that wait longer than her or next day rule its gonna be on your mind and its like a burden so just go on living your life and when you are done text her it works better this way, but if she gives short answers try to do the same or else it'll feel like you are really trying to grab her attention. Last thing is be goofy, a little nerdy in texting using emoticons to brighten up your messages a basic rule is try to make her smile with your every text.

[Johnmike]

wait ....
and wait .........

[richardG6]

Nice.. thinking,, im gonna try this