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Author Topic: no progress/no time for day gaming  (Read 776 times)

Offline totheark

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no progress/no time for day gaming
« on: January 25, 2011, 03:39:37 AM »
ive been into daygame and the world of pua for several months now and feel like i have made no real progress. i have to admit i have been spending a lot more time reading and watching this stuff than actually going out and doing it. but there within lies the problem, i only get 2 days off from my job (its pretty much full time) and that leaves me with no time for daygaming. but i have went out a little bit on my days off. ive been really fustrated with the last few times ive been out though. like today i saw a real attractive girl at a bookstore coffee shop sitting at a table on her laptop, and all i did was glance and stare at her and lingered around thinking of what to say, and nothing could pop into my head at the moment. feeling fustrated as hell and kicking my self in the ass i tried talking to this cute girl at the ice cream shop. i asked for her opinion on which ice cream is the best, she told me her favorite and all we talked about was what ice cream she suggested. there was no attraction, repport, or flirting really even going on. i dont know whats wrong i feel like im downgrading instead of making improvment.


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Re: no progress/no time for day gaming
« Reply #1 on: January 25, 2011, 03:54:07 AM »
its ok i had the same problem, shit I still do. you will get past this, I only had one day a week and went out every saturday religiously and felt that wasnt enough, probably wasn't but i noticed a progress either way.

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Re: no progress/no time for day gaming
« Reply #2 on: January 25, 2011, 08:42:42 AM »
You should listen to podcast #4. That guy has a busy life as well and gives some suggestions as to how to make time for gaming.

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Re: no progress/no time for day gaming
« Reply #3 on: January 25, 2011, 06:01:31 PM »
You get out of something, what you put into it! Try combining any jobs you must have to do on your days off (shopping/dry cleaning etc...) with approaching girls. Don't get caught up with coming up with the worlds best opener, just notice something about her (hairstyle, jewellery, style of clothes) and say "Hi, I just had to come up and say I love your xxxxx" and carry on a conversation.
I know some people struggle with this so rather than spend an hour online (which you don't need at the moment as you can get bogged down with too much talk of openers/techniques etc etc..), go to a coffee shop, take a seat outside (if it's too cold, take a window seat) and as every person walks by, notice something about them before they get out of sight, i.e "Hat", "rings", "bag", "necklace", "jeans", and so on...
Do this a couple of times and you'll soon find that as soon as you see someone, something they're wearing, will stand out.
This is an indirect way of opening, and is helpful as if the girl replies with a "Thanks", you can ask where she got the item/style and take the conversation from there, but remember DON'T get stuck on that topic for more than a minute, as you wan't to move things on ASAP, so just change the topic:

...Wow, I did'nt know xxxx sold that sort of stuff!?, so what are your plans, this weekend? I'm off to meet some friends blah blah blah..."
Also before you start, try asking girls in shops/stores for advice on buying something, as this gets you into a chatty, social, fun state. You can joke/flirt whatever and it does'nt matter about the outcome as she's there as a kind of an unknowing "practice partner" for you.

Once you get used to talking to girls without feeling nervous, try a MORE direct opener like "Hey, I saw you from the other side of the street/shop/station & I knew I'd kick myself if I didn't come and say Hi; I'm XXXX!"
Put in the practice and your results will improve! :)

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Re: no progress/no time for day gaming
« Reply #4 on: February 16, 2011, 10:32:51 PM »
Mate, the bottomline is that you haven't invested enough time to game. Your mind and body is simply not tuned toward approaching and opening. How many hours per week do you work? I hope you getting a good pay out of it. I do believe that there is a will then there's a way. Got to be a way around it.


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Re: no progress/no time for day gaming
« Reply #5 on: February 26, 2011, 08:16:51 AM »
ive been into daygame and the world of pua for several months now and feel like i have made no real progress. i have to admit i have been spending a lot more time reading and watching this stuff than actually going out and doing it. but there within lies the problem, i only get 2 days off from my job (its pretty much full time) and that leaves me with no time for daygaming. but i have went out a little bit on my days off. ive been really fustrated with the last few times ive been out though. like today i saw a real attractive girl at a bookstore coffee shop sitting at a table on her laptop, and all i did was glance and stare at her and lingered around thinking of what to say, and nothing could pop into my head at the moment. feeling fustrated as hell and kicking my self in the ass i tried talking to this cute girl at the ice cream shop. i asked for her opinion on which ice cream is the best, she told me her favorite and all we talked about was what ice cream she suggested. there was no attraction, repport, or flirting really even going on. i dont know whats wrong i feel like im downgrading instead of making improvment.

Dude! Do you realize you actually made an approach at the ice cream girl? Give yourself kudos for that single fact alone! That's the first step. You did something 99% of men would like to do, but don't. You did it. ;D Stop being so hard on yourself, and see the glass HALF FULL.

I also like to comment on you saying "no time for daygaming". How about the time you are travelling to and from work? I don't know where you live, but if you live in a medium sized city or town, GIRLS ARE EVERYWHERE. Try to weave daygame into your daily life, so it becomes more natural. Of course, actively going out a few days a week to do daygame definitely helps.

Good luck!
PS Lingering around and thinking what to say is ALSO A STEP. Not externally visible as a physical step like an approach, but a step inside yourself. Most guys don?t even think about it, they just walk on, YOU DID!