I've been doing cold approaches and gaming for almost four months. My confidence has grown and I got my first number within 10 minutes of meeting the girl (who later flaked with the usual emtotional stuff girls say so that they don't hurt a guys feelings lol)
However that was nearly a week ago and I haven't done any since then.
Today however hit me
there was this girl I met at the university cafe and she was a stunning polish girl. We clicked but at the time I didn't have the balls to close. I've seen her a couple of times in the corridor and spoke to her once again and said hi the other times. Today though I saw her with some guy and they came into the cafe and sat next to each other. I pretended I didn't notice but they both never spoke to each other. It kind of upset me.
Further still there was a hot girl sitting on her own reading a book and she looked so engrossed in reading it that it stopped me from approaching. It really hit me and the uni ball is coming soon.
I don't know whether I'm looking for a boost in confidence or just to clear up what I should have done but it would be great to hear from you guys.