I do daygame quite frequently and but my dates have not resulted in anything sustaining. I have done my reflections and realized that I have not built enough connection, there is this sense of awkwardness when i meet them for the first time, and i lose my frame sometimes.
Connection- not sitting with them and connecting with them
Sense of awkwardness- I guess its natural for this to arise? I tend to try to mend this awkwardness by trying to fill in with conversation
Lose my frame - I sometimes feel judged. Because i don't match up to their lifestyle and their social life, etc.. Guess i just need to be more comfortable with myself.
I am also balancing out my life by reading, meditating, going out with frens, working out,etc.