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Offline chicojonge

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Approaches: sorted. Getting dates, now what????
« on: July 17, 2012, 06:52:28 PM »
Hey guys,
Ive been doing a lot of approaches for the last like 9 months and Ive gotten pretty good. There is tons and tons of material on approaching. But what about when dating, what attitude should I have, how long after the date should I text, etc etc. Where is all the dating advice as opposed to approaching advice??



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Re: Approaches: sorted. Getting dates, now what????
« Reply #1 on: July 18, 2012, 12:35:51 AM »
The thing with dates or Day 2's or whatever you want to call them, is that each one is specific to the two people involved i.e where they go, what they do, what they say etc...
So it's very hard to give a structure to a date as each one will be slightly different, unlike opening where you can tell everyone "Oh, just run up to the girl and say blah blah balh!". I think you need to tell us what things have been going well/not good on your dates before people can give specific advice.

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Re: Approaches: sorted. Getting dates, now what????
« Reply #2 on: July 18, 2012, 06:04:43 AM »
Hi,
thanks for the input, its a good point human beings are difficult variables to predict etc. Although I have been reading some good stuff from RSDNation. I watched a video about investment. Basically if you try to hard on the date, always talking etc and trying to impress etc etc then you show you are too interested and it puts her off.
Instead just play it cool let her talk a lot and invest in the interaction. I tried this ona  date last week and it went very well, I lead but I let her talk a lot and just relaxed and done a bit of kino. But not too much. I had a date with a nice girl nearly two weeks ago and I messed it up because I over invested. We were holding hands and I didn?t want to let go. I came on too strong, was too needy. So I think we have to be emotionally detached and let things build slowly. Test the water by giving the odd bit of kino for eg lightly touching their elbow as you start to say something when walking beside her, or changing directions etc. Prolonged eye contact, and slowing down the speed of talking to make it more seductive.
I think we have to be like ice. And seduce not be seduced. If we let our emotions or feeling for the girl become too strong too soon then we scare her off.
This is what I have started to think in the last week or so!
What are your thoughts?
Cheers,
James
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Re: Approaches: sorted. Getting dates, now what????
« Reply #3 on: July 18, 2012, 10:33:24 AM »
You definetely need to insure that you don't come on too strong because, as you say, you risk suffocating the girl and most likely never seeing her again.
However I'd be cautious going down the "ice cool" attitude. Whilst you don't want to be too invested in the girl, if you come across too detached it can be read by her as uninterested. I think you need to find a good balance between the two which ultimately you'll only discover by going on more dates!

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Re: Approaches: sorted. Getting dates, now what????
« Reply #4 on: July 18, 2012, 04:27:10 PM »
yes, your right. i cant over compensate!
cheers!
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Re: Approaches: sorted. Getting dates, now what????
« Reply #5 on: July 24, 2012, 04:26:20 PM »
ur very right..
dates / day2's are an untouched area in the pickup world.
I've bought loads of products and seen all the dvd's and pdf's, almost NO ONE deals with dates!
its either night game from approach to seduction, SNL stuff, or day game street approach stuff thats IT.
but majority of success is gonna come from day 2's ... girlfriends and hookups.
id love to see more products out there on turning dates into pu$$y.
recently, I've started to back off and be cool, on the first 'date'.. i'll arrange a meet, and go simply for comfort and kino with lots of sexy eye contact, but not force a kiss, leave all that stuff for later.
This is through Yad saying he never even touches a girl until he is in full isolation (back at his place) and Tom saying that instant dates are for comfort building.
the second date, I'm going for make outs and getting sexual.
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