I am 41 and I am attracted by a 21 years old girl

[spy4u]

Hello, a few weeks ago, I met a very cute girl. She has probably 21 or 22 years old and I am attracted to her but the problem is that I'm 41.

What do you think? Should I ask her out or it's just my limiting believes?

[Soutter]

For some reason I attract older women (I'm 23). If I was to go up and change their perspective from "entertaining the idea" to actually being seduced fuck yeah! Unfortunately I'm still working on my game and not up for it yet...so anyways from my perspective fuckin oath mate go for it. It's definitely your own limiting beliefs.

Society has dictated appropriate ages brackets for relations but honestly in my eyes it's a load of shit. I say go for it and if you believe that age shouldn't be a factor that will come across in how you portray yourself. I mean in the eyes of the law it's all good and outside of that it's all relative. If she's showing IOI's and seems attracted as well then for sure! Ask her out!

[Unit]

Totally go for it.  Age is only an issue if you decide it is. 

Seriously just do it

[rbrt]

Go for it.

I'm 42, I know it?s possible. I got a HB7 girl home last sunday, she was a 24yo Russian. Got her top off and if I wouldn't heavily suspect she was having hygienic problems (as in: monthly problems) it would've been a SDL in a 3 hours timeframe. Once did a SDL with a girl 18 years younger. These things happen. Not every day though. Maybe not every month even.

Two reasons to go for it:
- get it behind you, either this works out or not (don't give you a high chance but still) but you know where you stand
- ability to look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you did what a man is supposed to do

Whatever happens: your excerscise is to take it well. Don't take rejection as rejection but as 'obviously she's not in the life phase or conditions that makes this work out, which if fine'. She's fine, you're fine.

[Sinergy]

Absolutely possible and as a matter of fact, many girls prefer older men (especially Rusians and Ukrainians) because we are not immature assholes or insecure.  I am 41 and live in Moscow (though American) and when I was first here 5 years ago, my average hook up age was 21. And, if they bring up the age thing, it means they are trying to press your buttons to see if you react.... Just say, I am twice the man of BOYS your age.... that should take care of that test 

[spy4u]

Thanks guys for your help.  I will have a try with this girl to see if something can happen.

[diverdoug]

sorry to say this but as a 41 year old u probably shouldn't be expecting a steady stream of 21 year old pu$$y.
if you day game a 21 year old, get her number, then a lot of the time she will flake because she will b thinking her friends / parents are gonna hate u.

[Rumba!]

sorry to say this but as a 41 year old u probably shouldn't be expecting a steady stream of 21 year old pu$$y.
if you day game a 21 year old, get her number, then a lot of the time she will flake because she will b thinking her friends / parents are gonna hate u.

Huh!? He only mentioned that he'd met ONE 21 year old he liked, not that he was only looking to meet them. Besides age is a limiting belief. PERIOD! I'm in my late thirties and I'm seeing a 22 year old Hungarian girl. She was cool with me meeting her friends and a couple of them are seeing older guys too.
Remember older guys bring to the table stuff like travel, experience etc..the sort of things that younger guys can only dream of. As long as a guy is well dressed, chill and fun to be around, the age of the girls he likes should never be an issue!

Peace,
Rumba! 

[spy4u]

Finally, I forgot about this girl because two weeks ago, I met a very cute and interesting 25 years old hb9.  We have met twice and yesterday she told me she wants to see me again so the 21 years old is past story

[Amazin]

thats wonderful to know!!!