Sure, I might get that "10s" number...but keeping in my life is different matter

[Consecca]

Something about day game got me thinking about the fact that while
I might get chatting to that model looks "9" or "10" in the street and get her
number what's the chances of me actually getting into my bed but more importantly keeping her in my life? I mean once she finds out that I don't really have what you would call a "rockstar" lifestyle, she is not going to stick around for long is she, by comparison my life is quite normal if a little routine and once she figures that out there's no way I could keep her as a girlfriend.

My point is that while I think this site is great for teaching us how to intially attract these type
If high value beautiful women into our life's I think there is a lot to be said about how to keep these type of women in our life's beyond the intial number close/first date phase.

What do you guys reckon?

[MMH]

I think this site emphasizes the importance of having a rich and interesting personal life outside of game quite often. Just make sure there's more to you than just work, your PC and game.

[Rob]

Yeah man you have to look at your life as a whole and girls should just be one piece to the whole puzzle.

Focus on doing what you enjoy and work on all areas of your life simultaneously, once I started doing this I noticed I was just a happier person and my vibe was so much better which girls pick up on.

Get a job you enjoy, have some hobbies, travel more, go to the gym etc. Since I have been lifting weights for the past year I honestly just feel soooo much better about myself as your body releases the natural chemicals, so this is something I recommend for everyone.

Focus on having a full life as not only do you appear more attractive to girls but you feel so much better about yourself as well

[Amazin]

I think you need to be one (in terms of value) in order to keep one for the long term, sounds vague I know.

Look at the top PUAs, how many of them have a 10? I can't think of any

[Hoho]

It all comes down to how much you appreciate your own life. If you not just work and sit by your pc, but instead do things outside of your home that you enjoy.

Then you will feel good about your life and the girl will feel the same when she is with you!

I think many people is to isolated when it comes to test new things (I, myself is one example). I mean, have you ever test salsa, street dance, hill climb, stand up? The list goes long.

I think it's important to test the water if you think that you could have a better and more fun life .

[MMH]

I think you need to be one (in terms of value) in order to keep one for the long term, sounds vague I know.

Look at the top PUAs, how many of them have a 10? I can't think of any

I don't exactly know what a 10 is. I don't believe in the phrase "Out of my league", and the phrase '10' is subjective. What can be one man's perfect '10' may not be what someone else wants. This even applies to a model who you'd have thought every man would like. Not true. There are men out there who don't like women who look like models (no, really there are!), there are some who like them to be a little plump and have an hourglass figure, some who like them to be small in stature and have small breasts (I myself tend to favour these), while some like them to be very voluptuous.

Most men can probably agree that some women are beautiful and some are not and be in agreement about which ones are/aren't. However one man's perfect 10 might not be another's, even if the woman in question has other options.

And here's a bit of a philosophical question. What is a '10'? Does it just mean looks, or is there something more? I mean you could have Miss Universe, but if there's no more to her than looks, then how can she be a '10'? Looks fade, but someone's heart does not. And you can have both, but when one goes, what is left? We all want different things, and the way I see it is IF I ever do find my '10', then it is probably going to be the woman I end up marrying. Like all people, she would not be perfect, but who wants perfection?