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Offline Gaydame

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I'm in a slump
« on: June 12, 2012, 04:09:22 PM »
Slump slump slump slump...

I whore myself around this forum quite a lot telling everyone to think less and do more... well now I gotta get someone else to say it to me!

At the moment I'm doing okay, from a DG POV - on sunday I had a day two and then an epic sex session with one of my previous approaches. Lovely.

But there's an entusiasm missing. I feel like I'm in a slump. It's either that I feel in a slump and that's why I've been going out less regularly recently, or I've been going out less recently and that's why I'm in a slump. I've been in slumps before and come through them, so in a sense I'm not worried. But as I'm in the slump, I can't help but feel a little slumpy.

This is perfect time to test out if it is because of lack of going out, frustration in job or a.n.other. I will go out later, make some approaches, and then repost.

I think this post might have been unnecessary... but on the other hand it might help others. We shall see...



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Re: I'm in a slump
« Reply #1 on: June 12, 2012, 05:13:34 PM »
I'm detecting a whole lot of slumpiness!!.. ;D

Happens to us all, mate. One minute, girls seem to be falling in your lap left, right and centre and the next..... ...tumbleweeds!!?!!!
Take heart from the fact that it will get better again, before you slump again, before it gets better again..etc etc..

Peace,
Rumba!  8)
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Re: I'm in a slump
« Reply #2 on: June 13, 2012, 09:15:34 AM »
Hey mate,

Sometimes I go through phases of this. And personally for me it was because I was doing it quite a lot and it was turning into a bit of a chore. I sometimes also feel a lack of inspiration due to my location as it is nowhere near as good as London. So I have done/did 2 things to get the enthusiasm back:

1)Take a break and focus on other things. Doing this, once I came back to it all the excitement was there again. John Matrix also mentions this on one the podcasts. I wrote a post on this back when it happened to me so feel free to check it out, if it resonates with you then great- http://daygame.com/cafe/index.php/topic,1220.0.html

2)Due to losing lack of inspiration due to my location I have booked a few holidays this summer to Budapest, Stockholm and New York for some solo daygame adventures :) It can work out cheap enough to go across to europe. And its proper exciting to think about doiong this in other countries where all the stunning girls are.

Hope this helps.
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Re: I'm in a slump
« Reply #3 on: June 13, 2012, 11:20:52 AM »
Hey Rob thanks and I enjoyed your last post!

I went out and walked around for a bit - made a couple of approaches I didn't really care about (I don't think I need to "warm up" or "get in state" any more - it doesn't make a difference now), but then I saw Krauser in set so I had a snoop, and then - funny old world - I happened to bump into one of my old f-closes (we hooked up about 4 or so months ago). We got talking, went for drinks, then we went back to her place!

So I didn't answer the issue I set out to, but at least had some passionate Italian lovin'!

Haha we'll see....

Gaydame
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