How to handle angry guys?

[leech]

Hi guys,

stupid thing - I have approached some 8hb on tube.
She's semi-responsive (giggling, but not hook point yet), I will say 50/50 I get her number,so I am ploughing.

Then some guy taps me and ask:
-is he bothering you? Fuck off mate!
Or something like that. Guy has been agressive from start - body posture, fists, etc.

I should leave, but I tried to reason with him. I said, that she's adult enough to tell me to get lost if I am disturbing her.
It went obviously wrong - next thing, guy says that he knows people like me, he will have lovely day, he's going to make lot of money and go back home to meet his wife and stuff like that.

My question is - how to handle guys like that?
Or at least put him down so he does not disturb again?

Thanks

[Rob]

This guy sounds like a fucking prick.

This is incredibly rare for something like this to happen. All it comes down to is jealousy- he is hating on you that you had the balls to do something like that and it gets him angry that he knows he would never have the confidence to do what you just did.

Especially where he starts talking about how he is going to have a lovely day and makes lot of money- his insecurities are coming out.

I would say you did the right thing, but where he said he is going to make a lot of money I probably would of said something like "Good for you mate, some of us have confidence to talk to girls. Have a good day".

Don't worry about him.

[leech]

actually, I replied with something like:
-yeah,big money,big car, big house and small dick...

I know he's frustrated - that's obvious.
But how to get rid of him in such situations?

Actually, that's not the first time - I already had d2 destroyed by waiter ('you must be tired after yesterday...' - I got d2 in same bar a day before).

[Rob]

Actually, that's not the first time - I already had d2 destroyed by waiter ('you must be tired after yesterday...' - I got d2 in same bar a day before).

Wow, whats wrong with these guys!

I haven't had many situations like that but its probably best just to ignore them as though they are not even there.

[MMH]

I find stuff like this amusing. Not worth giving a shit about really. Speaking for myself I wouldn't have bothered making a comment about a 'small dick' - why reduce yourself to their level?

When he's coming out with stuff along the lines of "I know guys like you", nice way of dealing with it is basically "What, heterosexuals?" The other suggestion was a good one too though. Never had this happen myself so, I can only go by intuition of how I think I would respond. 

Actually the worst I ever got when someone did notice what I was doing was a smile.

[Hoho]

actually, I replied with something like:
-yeah,big money,big car, big house and small dick...

I know he's frustrated - that's obvious.
But how to get rid of him in such situations?

Actually, that's not the first time - I already had d2 destroyed by waiter ('you must be tired after yesterday...' - I got d2 in same bar a day before).

Have never been bothered about dicks like that. But I need to say that the last one, with the waiter was really funny! Had a good laugh there.
I?m sure he was just making some joke and didn?t mean to destory your date.

But, guys will allways be jealous because you have a hard grip on your ballsack and they don?t!

[leech]

yeah, the waiter was ok.
He tried to be funny... I left him enough tips before so he liked me.
I tried to bs my way out of it but chick became hypersensitive/tense and it was game over.

Probably better was was just to acknowldege date a day before.
Well, bad luck - I am rotating places now.

[Ror-shak]

I work in retail and people try to take the piss out of me all the time. One good tip I can give you is not to go against it. If you do you give them ammo to work with. The best thing you can do is take their comment and push it way over the top. This way they have to keep coming up with new stuff. Most people aren't that creative. If you do this properly can shut people up so hard it's funny 

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"Is he bothering you? Fuck off mate!"
-(to the girl)Holy fuck your knight in shining armor has arrived!
-(to the guy) Man I wouldn't want to mess with you, you look like a mountain of muscle! I bet you get all the ladies! Teach me how to seduce women like you do!

and so on...

When you do this you compliment him and take the piss out of him at the same time. He can't get angry because he will look like a dick if he does.

And the waiter thing. Just be honest.

[MMH]

"Is he bothering you? Fuck off mate!"
-(to the girl)Holy fuck your knight in shining armor has arrived!
-(to the guy) Man I wouldn't want to mess with you, you look like a mountain of muscle! I bet you get all the ladies! Teach me how to seduce women like you do!

and so on...

When you do this you compliment him and take the piss out of him at the same time. He can't get angry because he will look like a dick if he does.

I'm not sure that your advice is that great as it comes across as actually just taking the piss, I can't see the compliment side of things. Is there any point even acknowledging a guy like this? I think if you are going to react Rob has given the best advice I think.

[Ror-shak]

Ignoring them will make them act like that even harder. If you don't put up a boundary they'll go as far as they can. My example probably wasn't that great, I must admit, but from my own experience I still believe working with them works best.

[CaryGrant]

So how did the girl react when the guy was doing all this?