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Offline chicojonge

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How Do I get Motivation?
« on: June 03, 2012, 04:26:04 PM »
Hi guys,

Weeks have passed and I haven?t done any approaches. I feel like I am not making the progress I should be making!

How can I get myself motivated? Ive tried thinking of being in the future and being alone looking back on my life wishing I made more effort etc. Having wasted a life which couldnt have been full of sex etc! LOL!

Can somebody give me some advice?



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Offline PhoboS

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Re: How Do I get Motivation?
« Reply #1 on: June 04, 2012, 04:58:33 PM »
Have you got any 'wings' ?
I think that's a good way to have group motivation, push each other forwards.
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Re: How Do I get Motivation?
« Reply #2 on: June 04, 2012, 05:37:28 PM »
i found that it helps to know your goals firstly, then to understand why you want to achieve them, and the importance of achieving your goals.

think about what state you will be in if you over came the obstacle and how you would feel if the obstacle held you down. Also, having a wing man! Dude i cant put enough emphasis on having a wingman. Its turbocharges your capabilities as long as u push eachother
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Re: How Do I get Motivation?
« Reply #3 on: June 04, 2012, 06:45:48 PM »
I would have thought that thinking about being alone in your life was enough motivation in it's self!?
Why did you stopped approaching? Was it work/college commitmenets? It's very easy to suddenly find that you haven't been going out because of things that happen in your life that you have no control over.
This is why I encourge guys I coach, to think less about having a "doing game for a couple of hours on Saturday" mentality and more about fitting it around your normal life. By doing approaches while out and about, it becomes part of your social skills set and so you can just approach girls while your shopping, having a coffee somewhere, on the way home from work etc..
Try setting yourself a target like "I must do 5 approaches every day" and then once you feel your getting back into the swing of things, make an effort to be more social in other aspects of your life. That way if circumstances mean that your busy for a while, you won't feel completely "off your game" because your a social guy and can jump back into meeting new people easlly!

Peace,
Rumba!  8)
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Re: How Do I get Motivation?
« Reply #4 on: June 05, 2012, 03:48:22 AM »
Hey Guys,

Thanks so much for the replies! I actually did 2 approaches yesterday and got one number. But I must keep momentum going so I will go out today and do some more!

cheers!
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Re: How Do I get Motivation?
« Reply #5 on: June 05, 2012, 03:58:01 AM »
Forgot to mention Im having a date tonight were just meeting for coffee. The chick has told me she is bringing her friend along. But does this mean I should pay for her friends coffee too??

ABy the way Yass whos the chick in your photo?

Cheers again!!

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Re: How Do I get Motivation?
« Reply #6 on: June 13, 2012, 06:00:23 AM »
I have no idea man but her wink is mindblowing
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Re: How Do I get Motivation?
« Reply #7 on: June 13, 2012, 06:08:32 AM »
lol
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Re: How Do I get Motivation?
« Reply #8 on: June 28, 2012, 01:27:55 PM »
don't look at pick up as a task. make it a hobby. cuz a hobby is what you do for fun and you don't think about it. back in the day when i was starting off, i made pick up a task and put so much pressure on myself. but when i started going out there and having fun and thought of it as a hobby, it just became a habit and I don't need to motivate myself anymore.
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Re: How Do I get Motivation?
« Reply #9 on: June 29, 2012, 12:04:49 AM »
Have a wank and as you are doing so, just remind yourself that your right hand could be a girl.  :P
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Re: How Do I get Motivation?
« Reply #10 on: July 04, 2012, 09:33:12 PM »
Ask yourself these:

1. Do I really want to get good at this? If yes, then say, "I will put the time and money for it, and be willing to take the risk and approach that girl I find attractive. The girls I approach may say or do something that will hurt me emotionally, but I am willing to face that, deal with that, and not let it affect me. Also, I know that a lot of girls too will love me, and I know it's going to be fun."

2. How would it be like fucking her? Visualize it in your head. Great, innit? Ok, follow your penis and talk to that girl.
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Re: How Do I get Motivation?
« Reply #11 on: July 05, 2012, 10:01:45 AM »
I will actually be honest. One girl did blank me the other day. Rather than let it worry me, I just shrugged and smiled and walked on. Apparently Katy Perry was about that day on the 'pink carpet' in Leicester Square. In retrospect I probably should have waited for her. Haha.

Seriously though that is the worst reaction I have had from a girl so far and of the approaches I have done, that was only the second time of many. The fact is, if you do approach girls, you will soon start to realise that most of them are nice, so long as you don't act like a prick or use stupid pick up lines, which I'm sure you won't.
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