"Wine comes in at the mouth and love comes in at the eye; That's all we shall know for truth before we grow old and die."
-William Butler Yeats
Staring deeply into her eyes, I feel something frighteningly powerful. A primal urge to pounce and sow my seed deep inside her. To commit the act that each of our ancestors undertook to bring us here.
I feel dangerous, I feel alive, and suddenly, that look intensifies. I know what I am feeling ceases to be a thought trapped in my mind. Instead, it is fully broadcast to her through every fiber of my being.
She giggles, looks away, and does whatever to diffuse the tension. But I hold fast, still feeling that animal instinct. Growing hornier and more ravenous by the second.
The hair on her neck raises "how are you doing this to me?" she asks "you're hypnotizing me, stop it!" she pleads, yet still I continue.
Finally, unable to hold on anymore, I pounce. First with vigorous kissing, than biting her neck, then it's off to less charted territory... This isn't a cheesy romance novel so I'll leave it there.
This slightly over dramatic bit of text is meant to illustrate something I've been thinking about recently. It's a real interaction, but it's also a generalized glimpse into something more.
I've always been someone who focused more on the verbal than the non-verbal. I won girls with my wit, my charm, and whatever verbal tomfoolery I happened to use.
Recently however, I've changed all that. Instead I've begun to focus on something much more powerful... Something that's been getting me laid.
The power of the eyes.
Lots has been written about eye contact, its importance, and why you're a douche if you're not using it. Not as much, to my knowledge, has been written on how to use it most effectively (with a few notable exceptions).
In my bit of prose above, you saw the power of sexual eye contact.
Looking at a girl and wanting to fuck her with every inch of your being does something special. It puts an unquestionably animalistic look upon your face. You cease to be human for a moment and become something more pure. It communicates your core male drive in such a way that it penetrates her feminine in its entirety.
She feels your desire and, if she's at all attracted to you, is incredibly aroused by it. She's not used to feeling such intense male energy so something within her switches on. She's yours...
But that's not the only powerful type of eye contact.
You can't always give off a sexual vibe. Sometimes other vibes are more appropriate for the situation or what you're trying to accomplish.
Let’s say you want her to feel beautiful. To feel loved, understood, and all the other wonderful girly things she wants to feel.
Do this by simply feeling as loving as possible while looking into her eyes. Bring up all of her positive qualities in your mind. Bathe in her beauty, soak in her lovely personality, or hell, just think of puppies if you have to.
Send love thoughts her way and she'll feel love without you needing to say a thing.
There's a big thing around the net about feeling the emotion you want her to feel. But take that a step further. Whatever you want her to feel, make her feel it by fully projecting it with your whole body, and most importantly, with your eyes.
I promise you, feel the emotion deeply enough and it will show up clear as day... All you've got to do is hold the eye contact.