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Offline capricorn_chicago

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How to overcome approach anxiety?
« on: April 12, 2012, 06:07:22 PM »
On Easter sunday I went out solo to chicago downtown, and I only approached 10 women in 5 hours. I guess I think a lot b4 approach. can anyone suggest how to kill AA? how to be in the moment so, i can just go and do it?



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Re: How to overcome approach anxiety?
« Reply #1 on: April 13, 2012, 05:41:08 AM »
Quote from: capricorn_chicago on April 12, 2012, 06:07:22 PM
On Easter sunday I went out solo to chicago downtown, and I only approached 10 women in 5 hours. I guess I think a lot b4 approach. can anyone suggest how to kill AA? how to be in the moment so, i can just go and do it?

thats not bad actually, just keep doing what ur doing, it sahould go ago by it self
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Re: How to overcome approach anxiety?
« Reply #2 on: April 13, 2012, 08:42:42 AM »
Yeah I spent the day out today and while I did some approaches and played my warm up games and I am impressed by 10 approaches in five hours you are doing great brother.

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Re: How to overcome approach anxiety?
« Reply #3 on: April 13, 2012, 09:42:47 AM »
Exactly, you should be PROUD!!!! I once stood at a large train station in the Netherlands....from 10.00 until.....21.00, without approaching anyone. Then finally I did one approach ;) So yes, you could always approach more, but 10 in 5 hours is a good start!
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Re: How to overcome approach anxiety?
« Reply #4 on: April 13, 2012, 09:04:47 PM »
Thats not so bad man. First time I did go out I approached 0 girls on a 5 hours long time.

I think you should see the good in that you approached 10 women instead of being angry for not approach more.

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Offline nj

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Re: How to overcome approach anxiety?
« Reply #5 on: April 15, 2012, 08:24:29 PM »
Remember that your going to die. Everyone says this, but actually do it properly. Imagine being dead, your funeral etc.

Take 84 take away your age then multiply x 365. That's how many days you've got left. Remember that.
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Re: How to overcome approach anxiety?
« Reply #6 on: April 16, 2012, 05:41:40 PM »
There are so many suggestions and they're all right in a way... but you have to find your own.

The actual answer is and only ever can be:

Practise

Or you can do what I did - a 21 day challenge. 10 compliment approaches every day for 21 days. By the time I was done with the challenge approaching was becoming mundane, boring and routine.

Which is better than scary, I warrant you'll agree!

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Re: How to overcome approach anxiety?
« Reply #7 on: April 19, 2012, 04:00:14 AM »
thanks everyone for wonderful and encouraging responses, I'm trying to go out as much as possible, hopefully soon I'll knock my AA.
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