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Offline Ghost219

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Goal Setting?
« on: April 11, 2012, 06:13:31 AM »
A lot of people advocate setting goals for maximum productivity. And greatest effect requires specific goals. I am having trouble coming up with ways to specifically state my goals for day game beyond "being able to meet attractive women during the day". I was wondering if you guys could share some of your personal goals when you first began and maybe some of your current goals?

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Re: Goal Setting?
« Reply #1 on: April 11, 2012, 09:06:56 AM »
According to your posts you haven't stopped a girl yet so that should be your first goal. If you have the daygame blueprint then this is also known as the 'capture' phase.

Just focus on that for now and once you feel comfortable with that then the next goal would be to transition into a normal conversation.

One of the biggest steps is to approach especially if you have not done it before so just focus on getting experience doing that for now.
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Re: Goal Setting?
« Reply #2 on: April 11, 2012, 11:20:22 PM »
Oh I think I get it.
So are you suggesting take the goals in smaller chunks as opposed to bigger picture is the best way to go?

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Re: Goal Setting?
« Reply #3 on: April 12, 2012, 08:42:19 AM »
Quote from: Ghost219 on April 11, 2012, 11:20:22 PM
Oh I think I get it.
So are you suggesting take the goals in smaller chunks as opposed to bigger picture is the best way to go?

Chase

Yeah mate definitely, its the best way to do it. Focus on getting over the fear of approaching for now.
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Re: Goal Setting?
« Reply #4 on: April 12, 2012, 05:19:58 PM »
You should have long term and short term goals and be strict about it.

For example, you could have a goal of having 5 different women in your rotation in 6 months time. In order to get there you may have to do a lot of approaches. Since you haven't done daygame approaches I would suggest you start setting goals on how many approaches you do per outing. I would suggest 10. I would also suggest working on your non verbal attraction game while you are approaching. Be very strict with yourself with the non verbal side of the game and not so much with the outer game (assumption stacking) because the non verbal game will be what makes and breaks it. So during these 10 approaches focus on having good EC for example and just keep working at it until you get good, which shouldn't take long. You should be able to get numbers quite quickly. If you are not, consider hiring a pro PUA to help iron out any flaws in your game and give you a good plan for the future.
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