Daygame is harder than nightgame

[archer1000]

I went out to a club last night and pulled a girl for the third week in a row. It was my first approach in the line as we were entering the club and I stayed with her all night and pulled her home. Yet I can go out and do lots of direct daygame and have real hit and miss number closes/flaky numbers/hit and miss dates etc. Sarging in clubs has it's drawbacks but it is much easier BY FAR than doing daygame, especially if you stick to the smoking area. With daygame you have got to have your non verbals down and solid which takes time. I also believe that the top daygame "gurus" are not getting the 100% success rate that they let on. I would say it's very hit and miss especially with direct approaches. How many people here are actually getting laid from direct daygame? Honestly.

I'm not putting daygame down. I really enjoy doing it and it's a great addition to your life. So if you are shopping/meeting a friend etc and see a hottie there is no harm in taking a shot and trying to pull her BUT with pure direct game, the success rate is always going to be quite low in terms of ratio. By not knowing direct game, you are limiting yourself in these situations.

I suppose if you had all of your non verbal game 100% solid and were totally in the zone and maximized your time in the field, and lived in a target rich environment with high turnover like London, direct daygame could be worth the effort. The problem I see is that there are very few success stories with direct daygame. I mean, it's pretty obvious that most of the guys posting here are not getting laid from direct daygame. I think the best solution is to have a life and have lots of ways to meet girls and just make daygame one of those ways but not the only way.

This seems like a negative post but it's not really. Daygame comes in handy with you see hot chicks that you wouldn't have been able to approach otherwise but don't think that you can have 100% success on every girl you approach and absolutely no flakes and no BF objections etc. However, it's probably the hardest way to get a girl so have other ways also and kill the guru worship because it won't help. Every top "guru" gets BF objections/flakes/blow outs/bad AA etc and don't feel bad or hard on yourself if you get blown out many times in a row because I know for a fact that it happens to even the best out there. I used to feel bad for getting blow outs because I believed that the top gurus never get blow outs. So when I saw a guru get blown out a few times it really relieved a lot of pressure i put on myself and made me feel a lot more relaxed about my game. Always accept that direct game is a really hard numbers game and hit the numbers!

[dex_ter]

I find night game easier too. But I found that working on my daygame has vastly improved my nightgame. Daygame gives you the ability to meet anyone ANYWHERE, which in my opinion is a priceless skill. So in terms of self-improvement, it makes so much more of an impact.

[archer1000]

I find night game easier too. But I found that working on my daygame has vastly improved my nightgame. Daygame gives you the ability to meet anyone ANYWHERE, which in my opinion is a priceless skill. So in terms of self-improvement, it makes so much more of an impact.

how many lays have you got from direct game? I would guess that the majority of posters here have zero lays from it.

[babe catcher]

Its all about the mind, if you really believe in yourself, you can do it, I'm new to this but I am highly confident that I will master this art, success comes through a lot of failures, what stops you progressing is the fear of failure

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LuJ4hbkLiY0 Arnold Schwarzenegger: Life's 6 Rules

[chicojonge]

I personally prefer day game. At night time in bars and clubs etc people are usually drunk. So when a guy chats to a girl he has dutch courage, and because hes drunk his perceptions are distorted and sees more beauty in a woman than there is in reality. So it is a bit disgenune. Also women are expecting to be chatted up at night time.

However in the day time, its a completely different story! If you walking down the street etc and see a chick you think is beautiful your perceptions arent distorted by alcohol, so when you tell her you think shes beautiful etc she knows its genuine and it has a big impact on her. Also your showing that your a man who has a pair of balls! This gets you big points, as it shows confidence. Also its out of the blue, the chicks arent expecting it. So they find it romantic etc!

Its also a great adrenaline rush meeting a chick during the day time especially when you are successful, and you can tell that they are enjoying it. Its a beautiful experience!

Also its free, as you dont have to pay to enter a bar or buy drinks etc! People who dont know about daygame etc limit themselves to bars and clubs. They cant even think outside the box and consider chatting to a chick on the street during the day time! Man them guys are missing out!

James

[Charleston]

Maybe the fact that Daygame is harder isn't necessarily a bad thing. It forces self improvement in a way that night game doesn't.

Ultimately, doing one doesn't stop you from doing the other. It's not a choice. They both offer you different experiences which will lead to a more full life.
For that reason, maybe don't compare Daygame and Nightgame, but daygame and... whatever else you might be doing in the day. If I have a day off, I find going out and meeting women one of the most exciting ways to fill up that time.

[iago]

I love daygame and I personally find nightgame a lot harder. Sometimes I go out to a club and I don't approach a single girl.
While with daygame I always manage to chat up some hotties.

Still my success ratio during nightgame is a lot higher but I want to keep going and change that ratio because I believe it is possible.

[RizkyM]

I got zero lay from daygame. Also got zero lay from nightgame. Heck if all I want is get laid I could easily get a hooker. No need to fuck around. do you know what asian hookers looks like? Exotic chocolate skin... Yummy. Lol

I think nightgame is easier because girls go out to club, for what? Of course, for your dick... They all want to get laid as well. So if you want to get laid and they want to get laid then you both get laid. Lol Girls are just sitting there, they don't need to run shit, we approach, and if they like us, they picked us up.

Easy lay, not for you. But for the girl. I will not be proud if I ever getting laid at a club. It's a common thing.

On a daygame it's a completely different thing, she could be working, she could be damn busy, she could had her final exam, or on her way to the hospital when her dad is dying. I think you'll be great when you could turn those urgent situations into instant dates.

It's not just about hard and easy difficulty level thing. I can't even begin to think to compare those two completely different situations.