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Offline popay69

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Direct game and number games
« on: April 06, 2012, 11:48:52 AM »
Hey guys!

I'm 17 years old and into pickup for 6 months.
I'm Doing daygame for 2 month now, 2 days a week.
I open set 2+ with INDIRECT, and set 1 with DIRECT.
My conversation skills are good and with indirect I can easily lead to a good interaction and sometimes to an instant date and NC the whole set or take Facebook.
When the girl is positive to my direct approach, I'm always NC well.

I can tell that my skills with woman are way better thanks to the sarging.
I'm feeling comfortable with woman and not afraid of approaching and showing interest.

 PROBLEMS :
* I'm getting alot of "I have a bf" when I'm direct (90% of the times)
I'm usually using yad's stop well with good body language and tone and saying "I don't want to sound weird, but I saw you and you looked cute so I wanted to know you/check it out".

* approaching directly to a girl in a set 2+.


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Re: Direct game and number games
« Reply #1 on: April 06, 2012, 07:27:51 PM »
Watch some of Sasha's videos and see how he deals with the "I have a boyfriend" response.

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Re: Direct game and number games
« Reply #2 on: April 06, 2012, 08:14:32 PM »
Watch some of Sasha's videos and see how he deals with the "I have a boyfriend" response.

I don't like the way he deals with it at all.

If a girl tells me she has a boyfriend when I go for the close, I lose my enthusiam to continue gaming her. In my experience, it's a pretty big indicator of disinterest, whether it is true or not. Sometimes it is clear that she likes you and is open to doing something but is just letting you know she has a BF. Other times it's a clear BF objection and it means she is simply not attracted enough and is not interested enough. I'd love to know the hard facts of how many guys have gotten a BF objection during the day and still laid the girl... and I mean a solid BF objection, not the one where she is on the fence and just letting you know... I'm talking about the kind that comes when you go for the number and she is very reluctant to give her number. In that case, move on and get a new target... it will be much less work.

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Re: Direct game and number games
« Reply #3 on: April 07, 2012, 10:08:03 AM »
If I'm asking for number after indirect game and the girl tells me that she has a BF, I'm telling her "we will just talk", in that moment she is somehow invested in me so she gives it.

I'm talking about the case that she tells me she has a BF right after the DIRECT OPENER.
CAN'T I DO ANYTHING ?

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Re: Direct game and number games
« Reply #4 on: April 07, 2012, 12:15:41 PM »
I'm talking about the case that she tells me she has a BF right after the DIRECT OPENER.
CAN'T I DO ANYTHING ?

I would act slightly confused about the connection she's making.  "That's cool, I don't really need to hear about relationship issues, but when you passed by me walking that way you just looked really nice and I had to stop you."


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Re: Direct game and number games
« Reply #5 on: April 08, 2012, 05:29:35 PM »
I will try to act confused as it doesn't related to the reason I stopped her.
Thanks!

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Re: Direct game and number games
« Reply #6 on: April 08, 2012, 07:44:10 PM »
With boyfriends, you basically need to figure out if her bf is the problem if its your approach.

One way to measure is that even girls who have boyfriends will give you their number if you are cool. This is how I usually get it...

Her: I have a boyfriend
Me: Fo real! Dayum, congratulations. You in love?
Her: NO!
Me: You got kids?
Her: NO!
Me: That's two strikes. How long you been with him?
Her: Blabla years.
Me: You gonna marry him or what?
Her: Nope...
Me: Fair nuff. So here's the deal: I am gonna message you in 6 weeks exactly to see if you are still with him. If you are not, we're grabbing coffee. If you are, well, I hope you fall in love and make some babies.

If a girl buys into this, then I think its a good indicator that your vibe is cool and you have some attraction. If a girls who throw you bfs don't buy into the above, it's a good indicator that your approach, not the bf may be the problem.



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Re: Direct game and number games
« Reply #7 on: April 10, 2012, 05:17:53 AM »
Hey guys!

I'm 17 years old and into pickup for 6 months.
I'm Doing daygame for 2 month now, 2 days a week.
I open set 2+ with INDIRECT, and set 1 with DIRECT.
My conversation skills are good and with indirect I can easily lead to a good interaction and sometimes to an instant date and NC the whole set or take Facebook.
When the girl is positive to my direct approach, I'm always NC well.

I can tell that my skills with woman are way better thanks to the sarging.
I'm feeling comfortable with woman and not afraid of approaching and showing interest.

 PROBLEMS :
* I'm getting alot of "I have a bf" when I'm direct (90% of the times)
I'm usually using yad's stop well with good body language and tone and saying "I don't want to sound weird, but I saw you and you looked cute so I wanted to know you/check it out".

* approaching directly to a girl in a set 2+.

for alot of girls cute is to much,and alot of the time they dont have a bf, one thing you can do say shes cute but watch ur energy level, not TO excited, but you want to see if shes cool.......... another thing you can do replace cute with with nice, then game on, size her up, qualify, w.e it is you do....