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Author Topic: Why would women stop their activety to have a conversation with me?  (Read 662 times)

Offline Coldboy

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When I see good looking woman on the street I have no idea why she would stop on her way to her friends/work/etc to talk to me? Would it not be annoying to be stopped on the street like that?

Also, does anyone know about some good confidence building material, preferably on video? I do have a fairly high confidence but at times I find that I doubt myself when it comes to people being more alpha than me or when it comes to my future plan.

Thx :)


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Re: Why would women stop their activety to have a conversation with me?
« Reply #1 on: April 07, 2012, 07:40:12 AM »
When I see good looking woman on the street I have no idea why she would stop on her way to her friends/work/etc to talk to me? Would it not be annoying to be stopped on the street like that?

Also, does anyone know about some good confidence building material, preferably on video? I do have a fairly high confidence but at times I find that I doubt myself when it comes to people being more alpha than me or when it comes to my future plan.

Thx :)

Let me ask you a question...if a cool girl came up to you and said you are cute while you were working to friends/work/etc, would it be annoying to you? But you are like "but I'm a guy!". Well, women aren't too different. In fact, because of society's way of valuing women, women are MORE consious and doubtful about themselves then men. Read that again: women are MORE doubtful and less confident than men. This is why I love doing direct: I don't get every girl, but I do think I make almost every girl's day.

I personally got most of my help from a book called Radical Honesty; another book Mode One; and finally DavidX.


Offline Ghost219

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Re: Why would women stop their activety to have a conversation with me?
« Reply #2 on: April 07, 2012, 06:43:23 PM »
I had a very similar mentality when I first started performing magic in restaurants.
"Why would they stop eating just to see me"

Then I realized I was bringing value into there evening. Someone said about magic once that what we are doing is giving them a story to tell for years. I believe the same thing applies to day game and pick up.
You ARE bringing value into her day because not all men can do what we are learning to do. Its unique. and even if it doesn't go well (No close, she has a bf, etc) you probably made her feel good about herself and she will be telling her friends and family about that guy who had the balls to just stop her and say he loved her style. (this is the mindset I am working on adopting)

And if you are scared of something bad happening something Sasha said really stuck with me, it either goes really well or its really fucking funny.

Ghost


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Re: Why would women stop their activety to have a conversation with me?
« Reply #3 on: April 10, 2012, 03:13:46 PM »
When I see good looking woman on the street I have no idea why she would stop on her way to her friends/work/etc to talk to me? Would it not be annoying to be stopped on the street like that?

Thx :)

Why? Simples:
BECAUSE WOMEN LOVE IT!
How do I know this? Because they tell me, all the time! The hotter the woman, and the more they take care of their appearance, the more they love it, because their effort has created results!

What do you pride yourself on? Would you like it if someone genuinely complimented you on that aspect of your life? Would you mind if they did that while you were on your way to something? Hell no!

Offline romeolips

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Re: Why would women stop their activety to have a conversation with me?
« Reply #4 on: March 10, 2013, 09:49:41 PM »
Well said and so true!


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Re: Why would women stop their activety to have a conversation with me?
« Reply #5 on: April 14, 2013, 11:40:23 PM »
(some may notice me posting because I'm getting back into this after a few months off!)

Just to add to this, don't bother looking for the answer in some videos. Videos and material can be a sign post, and very useful they are too, but you have to walk the journey!