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Offline CaryGrant

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In a shop: how do U stop a girl looking at the shelf/merchandise after you open?
« on: January 03, 2012, 11:13:41 AM »
This happens quite a lot when I open in a shop or supermarket...even with hired guns.

* You see a hot girl in a shop looking at the clothes rack in Top Shop or the shelves in Tesco/Boots.
* You stand next to her shoulder-to-shoulder and open her direct.
* She responds OK and you turn to shake her hand and introduce yourself. You continue talking.
* BUT she still hasn't turned away from what she was doing to face you. In fact she's still fiddling about pretending she's still looking for that size 8 or stick of celery.

She's not freaked out, she's still responding to you and smiling - she just hasn't turned to face you yet and stop what she were doing cos she's probably a little nervous. Question is, what can you do to make her turn to face you?

One thing I do is a slightly back-turn her (with my back to the merchandise) in an attempt to lessen the pressure she might be feeling so she will feel more relaxed about turning to face me. In effect I'm making her compensate for my back-turn...I guess its a physical break in rapport which baits her into physically investing.
« Last Edit: January 03, 2012, 11:53:48 AM by CaryGrant »



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Offline Rob

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Re: In a shop: how do U stop a girl looking at the shelf/merchandise after you open?
« Reply #1 on: January 03, 2012, 03:37:35 PM »
I would say focus on good eye contact to draw her in, as well as just give her a bit more time to get comfortable with the situation.

If that still doesn't work then.......... get your cock out :D
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Re: In a shop: how do U stop a girl looking at the shelf/merchandise after you open?
« Reply #2 on: January 03, 2012, 04:32:48 PM »
I guess its a more subtle version of her playing with her phone while your trying to talk to her. Usually if a girl is looking anywhere but me when I'm talking I call it out and she stops but in this situation she's only doin it cos she's nervous and not really being rude so it feels a bit knobbish to call her out on it.
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Re: In a shop: how do U stop a girl looking at the shelf/merchandise after you open?
« Reply #3 on: January 03, 2012, 09:50:44 PM »
"Hey, the show's over here!"
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Re: In a shop: how do U stop a girl looking at the shelf/merchandise after you open?
« Reply #4 on: January 03, 2012, 11:08:41 PM »
Quote from: Lux Lisbon on January 03, 2012, 09:50:44 PM
"Hey, the show's over here!"

Playful dominance, I like it.  :)
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Re: In a shop: how do U stop a girl looking at the shelf/merchandise after you open?
« Reply #5 on: January 13, 2012, 04:22:04 PM »
Actually I got a better one from our very own Hayley. Forgot about this one.

"I love how your still looking at your phone/the shelf while I'm talking toy you."

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=nNdXDw6bdjs
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Re: In a shop: how do U stop a girl looking at the shelf/merchandise after you open?
« Reply #6 on: January 16, 2012, 06:03:21 PM »
Quote from: CaryGrant on January 03, 2012, 11:08:41 PM
Quote from: Lux Lisbon on January 03, 2012, 09:50:44 PM
"Hey, the show's over here!"

Playful dominance, I like it.  :)

Dude that's from the Mystery Method.  ;)
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Re: In a shop: how do U stop a girl looking at the shelf/merchandise after you open?
« Reply #7 on: March 10, 2012, 10:07:58 AM »
If this is happening a lot, then it's a signal that your "capture" bit of daygame (attention snap, compliment) is not 100% solid.

Shy, maybe, but in my experience it means something's wrong...she didn't "get" the opener.

Some pointers to try:
* super strong eye contact (soft) combined with a cheeky smile
* s.l.o.w your voice down and watch out for inflections
* don't pause between compliment and statement - captivate her with your story about her

Hope that helps,

TT
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Re: In a shop: how do U stop a girl looking at the shelf/merchandise after you open?
« Reply #8 on: March 28, 2012, 08:48:15 AM »
Thanks Tom. :)
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