Doing "outlandish" things to build immediate confidence

[TabascoOcean]

I heard Yad say, and I have found this out in my own, doing some "outlandish" things can make you feel immediately more confident. Kind of like what you feel like after you dunk on someone good in game of basketball.  Just makes you feel good, perfect mindset to approach, I feel.

So if you have any just list them

If im walking behind a girl, i may straight up tell her she has a fine ass. Usually she turns and tells me how rude I am so I don't think theres any chance to close but it cracks me up, and its pretty much what is on my mind, on to the next one. Oh yea and other people within earshot may be something to consider

[TabascoOcean]

This is kind of a theater trick I've heard. Another thing to do is w a group, do a story improv, each person takes    a turn and verbally comes up w the next part of a story.

It can get funny and can realy break you out of a funk.

Id like to find a solo version though as well

[Tom Torero]

This is a very powerful "state-shifter"....but you've got to be careful not to get too high on Jack Ass prank mode fun which might be too much energy for daygame sets that follow. It's the bread-and-butter of nightgame though.

If I'm not feeling it when I go out and start opening, I often stop a girl who I'm not totally into, have a quick conversation and then hold her hands. I'll then try and kiss her asap. If it doesn't work then it's just an amazing shot of state which wakes me up. Remember kissing an Aussie girl like this outside Harrods, and both of us walked off with a grin!

NB: Kiss-closing on the streets is not recommended for solid game / solid numbers. When Yad did it for his Youtube video, he was just showing what was possible, as in his own words for a Russian girl she wasn't that hot. Kissing girls in the days leads to buyers' remorse and flake city.

[zakster]

For me it was doing a few very outlandish approaches...where I literally ask the girl in the day time if she wants to go home with me.

I only did a few of these approaches and it took me weeks to get em in. But after that, I felt a new sense of freedom.

Here's a couple on audio:
http://www.box.com/shared/j9a6saxaz2
http://www.box.com/shared/5gyge2uc1e

You can literally hear the nervousness in the audio. That was few years ago.

Here's an approach from yesterday:
http://www.box.com/s/2dc25322a0370e36e357

[Kaizen]

If im walking behind a girl, i may straight up tell her she has a fine ass. Usually she turns and tells me how rude I am so I don't think theres any chance to close but it cracks me up, and its pretty much what is on my mind, on to the next one. Oh yea and other people within earshot may be something to consider

Go Mode 1! Wholesome Pretender alert! (If you don't know what I'm talking about, read Mode One, by Alan Roger Currie!)

[Ghost219]

I find that waving at people UNTIL they wave back very helpful and it usually gets a laugh from both me and the wavee. Sticking my tongue out at people on escalators and just general goofing around builds right into approaching with a genuine compliment for me.

Ghost