I picked up the book "Think and Grow Rich" recently and for someone who has a short attention span.(me) I'm hooked. So much value in this book and I recommend it to everyone. Doesn't matter if you're poor, middle class, or filthy rich. There is value in this for everyone.
Anyways I read this small part about consciousness
"One of the main weaknesses of mankind is the average man's familiarity with the word "impossible." He knows all the rules which will NOT work. He knows all the things which CANNOT be done. This book was written for those who seek the rules which have made others successful, and are willing to stake everything on those rules.
A great many years ago I purchased a fine dictionary. The first thing I did with it was to turn to the word "impossible," and neatly clip it out of the book. That would not be an unwise thing for you to do.
SUCCESS COMES TO THOSE WHO BECOME SUCCESS
CONSCIOUS. FAILURE COMES TO THOSE WHO
INDIFFERENTLY ALLOW THEMSELVES
TO BECOME FAILURE CONSCIOUS."
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I feel that this applies to everything in life. I read somewhere that whatever your thinking about anything, you're going to be right.
I started my daygame journey mid january and have tried to come out whenever I can which isn't really easy for me when it comes to daygame since I work pretty much the whole weekend and that's when the best girls are out and about. I've recently hit around a hundred street/mall approaches and I've noticed that being a beginner, I deal with a ton of belief issues. There are days when I feel fucking awesome and the sets I do go well and I feel even more alive. Then there are the shitty days where I'm not feeling it then start to hesitate or doubt myself and sure enough women are giving me the 0_o look.
It's important to accept where your beliefs are at right now instead of resisting, but also remember that beliefs can change instantly. I know mine did after bootcamp.
If you want to hear about things that "CAN NOT" be done,
You CAN NOT get good at Daygame by never approaching.
You CAN NOT destroy approach anxiety by constantly reading articles and videos on how to get rid of it.
You CAN NOT be with amazing women if you feel you don't deserve it.
although...
You WILL get good at Daygame by always approaching.
You WILL get used to the exciting nerves you feel if you constantly approach girls you find attractive.
You WILL be with amazing women if you understand deep down that you are no less deserving than any other man out there with a nice looking girl around their arms.
Have fun mate.
- The Daygame Cafe Management
