How to pick up girls from school?

[Run Into Flowers]

Theres a girl in my thursday class who sits near me. We have breaks because its a long class so I figure that's a good time to talk to her or otherwise in group work. I could use any advice really, on what to say / when to say it. Can you guys help a brother out? 

[ryanwid]

don't pay any attention to her while in class. pay attention to your class! but on break. approach her.
"hi what's your name? really? cool my name's _____. You're really gorgous, what are you doing taking a class like this? Are you into this stuff? Really? that's cool"
you could talk about crap relating to the class room, except that's generally boring, but it would be the easiest.

or you could be extra ballsy and say "hey what's your name? you are extremely gorgeous, so gorgeous, i cannot pay any attention in class. yeah so you're the reason why i have a "B" in this class and not an "A"... are you passing this class? you think you could teach me some of this stuff? sweet what's your number?"

[CaryGrant]

IGNORE THE ABOVE ADVICE.

This girl is in your class and you see her every week regularly. DO NOT open her direct. If it goes bad she could likely end up telling the rest of her friends/class about you and then you have to deal with the awkwardness of seeing her around all the time. Dont be surprised to see her sitting further away from you in class either.

When you next see her with her friends on the break just approach the group and ask them something about the class and then transition into something more interesting. But dont identify her as yout target yet.

[Rumba!]

This girl is in your class and you see her every week regularly. DO NOT open her direct. If it goes bad she could likely end up telling the rest of her friends/class about you and then you have to deal with the awkwardness of seeing her around all the time. Dont be surprised to see her sitting further away from you in class either.

When you next see her with her friends on the break just approach the group and ask them something about the class and then transition into something more interesting. But dont identify her as yout target yet.

Do the above. Spot on advice from CaryGrant!

Peace,
Rumba! 

[TrippAdvice]

Ask her how she is liking the class so far. Talk to her about the weather. Doesn't matter. Take any time to make a conversation. Become friendly/friends with her. After the 3rd conversation or so, see if she wants to grab some coffee. There will be your chance to flirt with her.

[Run Into Flowers]

Ask her how she is liking the class so far. Talk to her about the weather. Doesn't matter. Take any time to make a conversation. Become friendly/friends with her. After the 3rd conversation or so, see if she wants to grab some coffee. There will be your chance to flirt with her.

First off I just want to thank everyone that has contributed to this thread. And TrippAdvice, this is our 3rd/4th week of class and I have been joking around with her not always directly, but with people around us too. This week I think I'm going to ask her out for coffee. Your advice was spot on with my plan - I like that haha means i'm heading on the right track. If she says no then I'll do my best to make it less awkward, because maybe I can try again later hehe.

[CaryGrant]

I'd try to spend as much of a break-time with her and her group first. Get her used to being friendly with you at breaks - go out for a smoke with her or soemthing. Make friends with her friends too so they'll think your cool and "give her their approval".

[TabascoOcean]

met this beautiful girl in one class one time

i sat next to her even though i never felt i had a shot.

id speak up in class (it helped that i actually was interested in the material cause id sound somewhat smart), make light jokes, even though i was so nervous the whole time, id force myself.

ask her if i missed anything, ask her how she did on tests (even though id bomb them haha).

then dude honestly she asked me out for a drink, then to come over, all at the end of the semester i was surprised. i really didnt have to do much, cept make THE move

i know the idea here is for the guy to approach and he should, but i think the idea here is the attitude i was able to portray.

cool, friendly smart, not scared to talk in class. i was so nervous the whole time but it worked. look her in the eye when youre tlaking.

sucks in auditoriums when you sit somewhere different everyday though

[Cloud Chaoszero]

You have to start off as being friend-like on the first 2-3 encounters, and then slowly turn up the heat if you know what I mean.

[Run Into Flowers]

thanks for posting everyone. Well i asked her out today, (i've done everything from joking in class to directly joking with her, i speak up in class, i show confidence), and she said she already had a boyfriend. her boyfriend has the same name as me too from what she said. we go to a smaller college so i don't think she really has any friends there. she said she definitely would have gone out with me had she not been in a relationship, so my next question is... how do i influence her to go for me instead of her boyfriend? i know it's a mean thing to do, but i feel like i deserve her more.

btw it's almost impossible to get her out anywhere even as friends. she said it's just a bad idea and i asked her if she was serious with her boyfriend and apparently they're getting serious.

[CaryGrant]

she said she definitely would have gone out with me had she not been in a relationship, so my next question is... how do i influence her to go for me instead of her boyfriend? i know it's a mean thing to do, but i feel like i deserve her more.

btw it's almost impossible to get her out anywhere even as friends. she said it's just a bad idea and i asked her if she was serious with her boyfriend and apparently they're getting serious.

Girls often say "I would if I didnt have a bf already" as a consolation, doesnt mean anything.

How do you know you deserve her more? You dont know her BF. Maybe he deserves her more. You're just saying that cos YOU want her and are envious. We've all felt like that at some stage, its normal envy.

Its a bad idea cos she knows you want to be more than friends. And besides she and BF are getting serious. She's not getting serious with you...which further disqualifies your feelings for deserving her more than him.

Let it go, man. You can't have everything in this world and rejection will come and often you can't control it.

[MikeTheGorilla]

Forget about her. Move on to the next..  show little interest.

[TabascoOcean]

ive had good experience doing this. and i think its the best reaction cause its win/win. saying

"hey i understand and its totally cool, just thought id throw it out there, no big deal! So yea what did you think of the test?? Number 5 was so stupid!!...."

basically continue acting as you have been. smooth, friendly, smart, speaking up in class. CHANGE NOTHING!

she may see that it didnt ruffle your feathers, which indicates a lot of confidence and she could change her mind and then she'll ask you to lunch or to study or something.

or she DOESNT change her mind BUT you still look like a boss and she'll still respect you. you keep your dignity and you still look smooth as hell. which is what being good with girls is about. always having strong pride (not cocky though). maybe she'll hook you up with a friend

SO DONT CHANGE ANYTHING! thats basically accepting it, if you cant accept it, at least youre looking like you do lol

[Run Into Flowers]

ive had good experience doing this. and i think its the best reaction cause its win/win. saying

"hey i understand and its totally cool, just thought id throw it out there, no big deal! So yea what did you think of the test?? Number 5 was so stupid!!...."

basically continue acting as you have been. smooth, friendly, smart, speaking up in class. CHANGE NOTHING!

she may see that it didnt ruffle your feathers, which indicates a lot of confidence and she could change her mind and then she'll ask you to lunch or to study or something.

or she DOESNT change her mind BUT you still look like a boss and she'll still respect you. you keep your dignity and you still look smooth as hell. which is what being good with girls is about. always having strong pride (not cocky though). maybe she'll hook you up with a friend

SO DONT CHANGE ANYTHING! thats basically accepting it, if you cant accept it, at least youre looking like you do lol

Alright, thanks TabascoOcean, I really appreciate it. I had the same thing in mind, just keeping myself upbeat and continue talking to her and making her laugh.