Welcome to the club!
It's your duty as a man to penetrate her world and present yourself as the gift.
Don't let the videos of the so called experts intimidate you. We all start from the beginning and continually learn from every encounter.
Approach excitement is a better term than the overused approach anxiety. We all feel the excitement. It's what makes the world go round. Use it to penetrate her world. Most guys do not have the courage to approach women on the street, so you approaching her is a turn on.
Unapologetic, Value Giving, Fun, Non-Needy, Assume Familiarity, Outcome Independent, Assume Rapport, Unreactive, and Positive Energy all enhance the interaction.
Heres a basic framework where you inject your own unique personality.
Notice something unique about her to open the conversation.
As she walks down the street, approach from behind and walk up to her shoulder to shoulder until she notices you. Then walk up infront of her and stop, put your palms up getting her to stop and state the following example. Start the conversation with a genuine smile, hold eye contact, and avoid talking too fast.
Hi, I have something special to tell you - Attention Capture
I saw you from over there (pointing over there) - Prehistory
And I noticed your beautiful aura - Observational Statement
Gives you a very charming presence! - Direct Compliment
You look like the fun type. Are you a dancer? I imagine you go to dance clubs alot - Assumption Stack
Do not let her reactions to you affect your mood. Be completely unreactive to whether she is interested or not interested. Maintain your strong masculine presence and lead the interaction forward.
The Assumption Stack is a Statement, Question, Statement Loop. This is the bridge to the Hook Point where she begins to invest in the interaction. This is also your safety net if you can't think of anything to say.
Statements give her value while questions ask her to invest in the interaction. You can turn any question about her into a value giving statement like "Where are you from?" to "You look like you are from London."
Avoid the common interview interaction of question after question and being overly agreeable. Focus the topic around her and not so much about yourself. Captivate her with what interests her.
You leading the interaction forward is an attraction switch. Escalation is attractive.
Build a romantic connection by compelling her to pursue and seduce you through playful teasing, flirting, breaking rapport, qualification, investment, compliance testing, eye gazing, future projection, escalation through hand holding, hugging and kissing leading to close. Create a Us Bubble or You and Me frame.
Building a romantic connection is for the purpose of having her view you as the object of her desire and not just a random guy she had a conversation with on the street. Break free of the common interview mode that most guys bore women with like "Where are you from?" and "What do you do?" etc.
Move beyond logic and connect with her emotions. Emphasis on fun. Communicate your benefits more than your features so her desire for you is very high.
Communicate your benefits means express your animated, playful, teasing, flirting, fun side of yourself in order to connect with her emotions versus logical features like I live in xyz town and I work xyz job etc. where you run the risk of boredom, flaking, and blowouts.
This is also designed to reduce the "I have a boyfriend" objection and flaking. If you leave her with uncertainty, she is likely to ask her friends for advice. Since her friends don't know you, they will likely advise her to flake. If she says "I have a boyfriend" simply acknowledge and keep the interaction moving forward. She may find you more attractive and choose you as her new boyfriend.
This outline is direct natural game. It is the type of romantic interaction that women fantasize about.
Get inside her heart and not just her mind!
- The Daygame Cafe Management
