What to say after opening?

[Coldboy]

I'm new to daygame. I'm fan of Sasha's direct approach and just say what I feel about the girl (i.e she is the hottest one there or the hottest girl I've seen in the last 15 minutes) But how do I keep the conversation going from there?

Thx

[Kapz]

I am a newbie to daygame as well i guess the more you practice the better you get. The more you apply the more you learn and the more experiences you have.

[Stephen]

Sasha's game isn't for everyone. In fact, he's a bit over the top and in his recent videos he chills down and is much smoother.

Well, you need to follow the day game blueprint because it's the most effective.

"Excuse, I know this may sound a bit random, but I literally just saw you and thought you looked really nice."

Then make your assumption

"You have this mysterious vibe to you and it's gotten me very curious. You must be a poet"

then keep going, listen to what she says and talk to her about it. Never talk about yourself.

Good luck!

[Lux Lisbon]

Yeah, you can more or less say anything, as long as you approach the girl in the right way.

It is a numbers game, and you are looking for a girl who you feel you have genuine chemistry with.

A tip: LOWER THE BAR AS TO HOW AWESOME YOU THINK YOU'RE CONVERSATION WITH THE GIRL NEEDS TO BE.

As Stephen said: going for a cold-read is good - "I like your style, I bet you do something creative."

Also, you can try:

"So, who are you?" and when she shakes your hand, pull her in and say: "Oh, Laura (or whatever), I love you!"

"Oh, my god, you're so huggable."

"I'm not even listening to what you're saying, I can't take my eyes off your lips, eyes, etc. they're so bewitching"

"So, tell me about yourself - give me the flash-bangs."

Remember: keep your eyes fixed on her eyes. That will help you to get turned on by her and, as we know...altogether now..."What you feels, she feels."

Speak slowly too, but with commanding tonality in your words.

PLAY TO WIN, DO NOT PLAY TO LOSE.

[ryanwid]

"are you a fun person? what do you like to do for fun?"

"my friend believes that girls that are really pretty, aren't usually that cool. what makes you awesome?"

[craze6663]

I'm new to daygame. I'm fan of Sasha's direct approach and just say what I feel about the girl (i.e she is the hottest one there or the hottest girl I've seen in the last 15 minutes) But how do I keep the conversation going from there?

Thx

from when I started I had 2 "cold reads" (or assumptions) that I could always depend on...always keep it in ur back pocket


after you're "opener" (the whole opener)
"you seem like a school teacher" if you're right, cool, she's intrigued, if you're wrong she will correct you and you talk about that

"you don't seem like you're from new york(change the city depending at where you are, im from NY)" this is pretty much came up on my own and still use it now...again if you are right she will tell you where she's from if you are wrong then you say "oh where are you from..."

I usually end up using both of them in a set to get the girls talking....when the ball is rolling you have a regular convo...teasing, joking around, the challenging ....

[Voodoo]

''You seem like a school teacher. You have this 'save the world vibe about you''

''You seem like a accountant. You have greedy eyes!

[jakes191]

I think the cold read/assumption stacking on it's own will not be as power full as the ones with a reason for the assumption. Voodo has it spot on.

I was actually going to start-up a thread where everyone can chip in the cold reads and thank you Voodoo for starting it.

Here are mine

"you are so tall and thin, you must be a ballet dancer"

"it looks like you are out in your lunch time for a sneaky drink, you must work around here" (for lunchtime gamers)

"you seem like a yoga teacher, you have this very calm vibe about you"

Come on guys, chip in with what you have. Will come into good help when daygaming.
I stuggle with this becasue English is my 2nd language regardless of me having lived in UK for 18 years. When it comes to these situations, I tend to think in a different laguage and a direct translation into english will sound stupid/funny.

[John Matrix]

After opening and complimenting her, don't wait for her response just go straight in with an assumption about her, and when she responds listen to what she says and then start to talk about the thing she just said.   It's simply all about making statements.

Either you know something about what she's said and you can talk about it or you don't but either way you can make a statement about it. If you don't know, then you just say "Do you know what I don't know anything about that/ I've never been there but I imagine that its like...... (and then tell her what you think, the more creative and teasing the better).  This will work for any response she gives you to an assumption. This is basically your shoe in to a conversation.  Its like a habit you need to get into of making statements about the things that she says and then before you know it you're in a conversation about one of these things.  If you do this you will never run out of things to say.

A couple of very basic examples -

Open
Compliment
Assumption - "I love how Swedish you look. You've got the blue eyes and the blonde hair, very cliched"
She says - "Actually I'm German"
You say - "Do you know what, I've never been to Germany but I have this image in my mind that its like..... "

Or

Open
Compliment
Assumption - "What I noticed about you was you had a very elegant walk. I'm guessing you are a dancer"
She says - "I'm a yoga teacher"
You say - "Ok. I did an ashtanga beginners class recently. It was so bloody tough, I was expecting a nice relaxing time and it was like punishment!"

Or

Open
Compliment
Assumption - "What I noticed about you was that you looked very business like, I'm guessing you're some high powered lawyer"
She says - "No, I work in advertising"
You say - "Oh my god, so you make a living by lying to people. I watch TV ads and I buy all this crap, now I know who to blame! (said with cheeky smile)

You are making these assumptions to get into a convo.  If that doesn't happen and the convo thread dries up, you make another assumption and follow the same routine. You keep doing this until one hooks, or she hooks and asks something about you and then you're in.

[Kraven]

Andy did a nice video of this way back, it's a think he calls the 'Conversational Safety Net' or something like that.

http://www.daygame.com/2010/videos/the-art-of-picking-up-women-is-knowing-what-to-say-after-hello/

it's a really good place to start

[KalaKalu]

then keep going, listen to what she says and talk to her about it. Never talk about yourself.

Good luck!

Are you sure about this? Because one of my last experiences the girl didn't give me her number saying "I don't know you very well". So, i guess that i have to sell my stories ...

[Kraven]

That's not true of course you have to talk about yourself, just try not to slip into the "Mr-me-me-me" where you talk for too long about yourself and are investing too much value.

There's a thing called the 90/10 rule, so basically it should be about her and her talking 90% of the time and 10% about you and you talking.