that there are guys who aren't particularly goodlooking, wealthy, or high up the 'social value ladder', generally not assertive as a whole, but still end up in relationships with fantastic women?
I've wondered about this whole me life. It used to be jealousy, fuck, it might still be some jealousy, though I don't want to be in a relationship right now. It's not that I think they don't deserve them or that I'm 'better' or whatever, Im talking about the general trend here. For me, I wish it sometimes just 'happened' that for whatever reason, a girl just fancies you out of the blue and gives you a call, text or whatever, but unfortunately this has never happened.
And I still can't seem to figure out why, because if I knew why, then you could master both active game (daygaming) and passive game. Does anyone recognize what Im describing here? We're always talking in the 'pickup community' about 'being alpha, a leader, assertive, etc etc.' meanwhile you see soo much contradictory evidence around you because what Im suspecting here is that once you've taking this 'alpha' role, it is expecting from you to take the initiative, every single time.
But then again, if I look at myself I certainly wasn't an 'alpha dog' or 'assertive' guy in highschool, and I still had to 'make stuff happen'.
How do you guys feel about this because there must be guys out there that know exactly what Im talking about.