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[DayGame]

Hey Guys

So after years of looking at many "Pick up artists" sites, i came across DayGame just recently and i have to say i think all the videos and articals on this site is golden. However its been a few week and i still havn't been able to approach any girl on the streets although ive spent alot of my time out their to try.... 

I saw Andys Vid on state shifting and have to so this is a great technique im really appreciative for, but im having trouble even doing that. Im quite a social person but am still having mind blocks which brings me onto my last point.

Is their any DayGame products you recommend, all ive seen is the one product this company offers which is the Blueprint which does look great but as a university student money is quite tight. Therefore would appreciate some reviews on people that have purchased this product.
 
If im honest i should of spent the last week revising when instead ive been on the streets coming back hartbroken with no approaches. 
 
Please Help Guys 

[Rumba!]

Hi mate,
Welcome to the boards.
To be honest, from how you describe your situation, I would forget about buying stuff and attempt your first approach. All that buying a dvd/ebook etc is going to do for you right now is make you even more confused. There are loads of free vids of daytime approaches on this site or YouTube if you want examples. Once you've done some approaches and got comfortable asking for a girls number you may want to look at getting some help/advice if you have a sticking point but nothing will help you like getting your first approach under your belt! Before you do approach, make sure you get into a talkative state by chatting to people in shops/cages etc..or ring a mate and have a chat. This gets you into a social frame of mind.
The next stage would be to go for a low key approach like a directional opener. Once the girl starts replying you can think of what to say next, for example mention that your looking for a present and ask her if she's shopping too (presuming your in a shopping area!?)

Do a few of these type of approaches and you'll soon feel confident enough to try situational openers and direct ones as well!
Hope things go well and keep us informed on your progress.

Peace,
Rumba! 

[BeStrong]

I think the best investment would be getting a coach for a few hours or someone from the community with some game done who could 'coach' you. Don't buy any products. It's waste o money(at least for now). Look ak Ntropys journal here in Daygame stories section. He struggled with approaching too(but he have done some) and in his late post he's describing a day with a coach and it went quite well for him.

[The Zuberi]

Might be a good idea to get a wing who is also dedicated to improving his skills with women. I did this aswell (still do) and it works like really good. We motivate each other and somehow the bar isn't as high in your mind. Btw, I wouldn't worry about finding other products, I fell into the same trap years ago. I discovered 'game' when I was 16, Im now 22 and Im pretty sure I've read/watched most of the stuff out there. I've spend thousands of dollars on the stuff and though it seems things are finally clicking, I'm positive it's because of the DGblueprint that they do. I'm a university student aswell btw and I just worked a couple of extra hours to purchase the product. No biggie.

Save up a bit of money and buy the product. I'm not a some subtle marketeer for the blueprint, but take my word, this is definitely solid. What I personally really like about it is that it feels genuine, Yad/Andy and the whole team truly seem to want to help guys, not just grinding them out for every fucking dollar they are worth as most guys do. I remember this one guy here in my country who recently started as a 'representative' for the mystery method (which is so oldschool obviously). I'm sure he is good and he seems like a cool solid guy but his 3day bootcamps are 3k euro or something and it's probably not nearly as valueble as the blueprint.

I remember reading somewhere that we all try to plan our story whereas if we would just start living our own story the story would unfold itself. Don't take the 'rejections' personally. The way I look at it, the more 'rejections' I get, the better I become eventually.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=45mMioJ5szc&feature=player_embedded

[DayGame]

Thanks Guys im really taking your opinions on board, and i think i just need to make my first approach and start getting out of my head. Although its hard expecially when you see so many DayGame videos of it being done effortlessly, the monkey garbage just gets to me.

Could you please get back to me on how you guys first started out in DayGame and what your first experiance of it was (And how you brought your self to it). 

Thanks Guys and any more advice out there would be golden

[Rob]

Thanks Guys im really taking your opinions on board, and i think i just need to make my first approach and start getting out of my head. Although its hard expecially when you see so many DayGame videos of it being done effortlessly, the monkey garbage just gets to me.

Could you please get back to me on how you guys first started out in DayGame and what your first experiance of it was (And how you brought your self to it). 

Thanks Guys and any more advice out there would be golden

Sure. I had enough of the bar and clubs scene and thought there must be a better way (and more romantic way) to meet girls, so then I came across daygame It just appealed to me straight away as just imagining how incredible it would be to have the ability to meet girls anytime and anyplace unlike any other average guy.

For my first daygame session as I was completely new to it, I took a train to the city across from my as I knew there would no chance I would bump into anyone I knew which made me feel completely free and that I could do anything I wanted.

When I stepped off that train I felt a crazy combination of nervousness/excitement so first of all I just walked round a bit to get used to the area and surroundings. I ended up doing 2 direct approaches. One was on a hired gun who worked in next- she was at the entrance of the shop signing people up for stuff. I eventually got the courage to go up to her and tell her I was just walking past and had to tell her she was cute. She was friendly but was obviously paid to be like that. I asked for her number and she just took mine so I obviously never heard from her again lol.

The other approach was my first street approach (well it was in a shopping mall) she was walking with a load of shopping and after a couple of minutes of me standing there nervous as hell I got the courage to stop her and tell her she was stunning. We had a nice chat and I quickly ran out of things to say but this approach always stood out in my mind as she said "If she was single (she was married- even though she was only 24) this sort of approach is something she would really be interested in" and when we said our goodbyes the last thing she said to me was- "You should keep on doing this as its soooo nice"

That was my first outing- and I cant describe how nervous I was at first! But that day is something I will always remember because of what that girl said to me. I suppose I was quite lucky as I got two positive reactions but I think being nervous can help as they can tell you are being 100% authentic. I get blown out sometimes these days as I go up almost too confident (in combination with being a good looking guy) and it almost doesn't seem real to them.

As you can see I threw myself straight in there going direct and I have never felt a rush like it. So you could try going direct on hired guns as they will always be friendly and then maybe if you are feeling brave you could try street approaches.

[The Zuberi]

For me it was about two months ago. I never was really succesful in the whole night club/bar scene. I always seem to enjoy succes with women in these enviroments when I truly don't give a damn about hooking up with a girl. Anyways, depending on the club, I still feel quite uncomfortable because usually the music sucks (rihanna bullshit stuff) or everybody is severely intoxicated (I don't drink) making me feel a bit of an outsider eventhough I swear to my way of living.

In short, I still go out, but never to get girls. I found too much of a hassle, pretending to be the alpha dog of the club eventhough I would just be a 'normal' guy. Definitely very cool, but normal. I guess the reason I never really took action in the nightclub scene on a consistent basis is because it never resonated with me. It felt like tricking girls, taking advantage of their weakish emotional state, pretending to be very happy eventhough you might have had a rough day.

So I luckily stumbled upon daygame after a turbulent summer. I knew I had to take action ASAP or I would fall into the same old trap so I met up with a buddy in Amsterdam and we went on daygaming. At this point, I only knew how to run up to a girl and that was pretty much it. I ensured that the first approach would be done asap, it went horrible, she pretty much ignored me but I couldn't care less. I was taking action!

Eventually, that day I approached 10 girls, all very very cute. I had some 15-20min+ interactions and got 4 phone numbers, a shit load of compliments and almost an instant date with a model from Berlin. That was all I needed to know. Now for me, it's still about taking action, I find the girls reaction quite irrelevant since for me, the first year of truly actively daygaming (this upcoming year) will be all about taking action. Im confident that taking action, being passionate and growing as a person will eventually lead to massive succes, you just gotta be patient.

[Tristan]

Take SMALL steps at a time. This takes all the pressure out of approaching and fear of rejection/embarrassment.

Start with trying to make eye contact with cute girls walking by. Doesn't matter if they don't look back. Just get used to holding eye contact.

Then get used to being around hot girls - don't talk to them yet but if you see them in a supermarket or train platform, go and stand next to them and feel your nervousness and get used to it.

If you're comfirtable with the above, open hot girls indirectly - ask for the time/directions. At this stage, don't even think about going further than this; just in and out so you get used to talking to them, however briefly.

Then, do the Yas stop (look up the video) and ONLY give her a compliment and then walk away; again, don't put on the pressure of trying to chat her up at this stage.

After that, you can give a compliment, then make an observational statement about her, and voila, you're gaming her!

The key is to take each stage at a time and only think about moving on when you feel you can. It may take 5, 10, 20 or more at each stage but by breaking it down into stages, the task is less daunting.

I, like most people, had crippling approach anxiety when I started - usual story of walking around a busy street for 5 hours not approaching a single girl. But I did the stages above and within a couple of weeks, I was more comfortable approaching girls and now, I have no anxiety whatsoever. Doesn't mean I have amazing sets straight away (usually get blown out in first few) but I have no fear.

[Lux Lisbon]

I'm in my 40's. I work in a hospital, and getting up each day to work in such a crazy environment makes you tired, man. In addition, I was diagnosed with cancer just over four years ago (I'm in remission now, thank the Lord), which made, and still makes me even more tired.

These things, combined with the fact that I have a responsible job with children and coming into work without my A-game head on every morning really isn't an option, and that clubs and dance music are so appalling it makes me want to sandpaper my own testicles, made daygame the only sensible option.

[DayGame]

Some Great advice here chaps thanks alot, ill get back to you when i manage to put this stuff into practice.

In the meantime any other thoughts? Thx